Please give me some successful tips on how to play hard to get with a guy that is aggressive and flirty? Thank youHow can I play hard to get?
Why u wanna do tht ?!!
do u want him or not!!!How can I play hard to get?
Make it seem like you are busy with your own life. Guys love it when women have their own thing going on.
act vaguely uninterested.
Meaning, give a causal smile but too hard. Glance but don't look.
Be busy and pre ocupied
I have always been hard to get (not ';played'; i was hard to get) And it really works...
but dont ignore him.
When he wants to talk to you just talk to him if he tries to kiss you do not let him kiss you (never say you have another boyfriend if its not true)
Let him try to get close to you and look for you but dont you look for him... be flirty though.
Then when you think its the time to show him love and that you like him like he does too stop being hard to get and stick around.
It really works to see who really does love you or who's just trying to use you. If hes just trying to use you and he says it to you just say sorry you dont play like that.
Trust me, all my relationships have been long-term, the only 2 ive had. Thats why im hard to get.
be succesful like me! lol
I play hard to get all the time but I am surrounded by beautiful women all the time ! It's hell for me too !!!
just ignore his IM's or flirt with other guys to make him want you! that will make him more determind to get with you. trust me guys love the chase..guys think hard-to-get girls are more fit for a relationship. if they think ur not hard to get u must not be any good.
No. you shouldn't play hard to get because if you really like him you should go out. but if you keep playin, hes gonna find a new ''play ground''
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do I play hard to get with a guy?
hard to get isn't really a game you play, it's a state of being. You have to feel that you are an extremely valuable person worth being with, and show it through your actions. you have to keep a part of you within you, that only a few elite people (your closest friends, most loved ones) are allowed to see and have access to. if you think highly of YOU, than so will he.How do I play hard to get with a guy?
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get a restraining order against him, threaten to tell his wife
How do you play hard to get, When he's playing hard to get?
I was with a guy for 2 and a half years and were talking again. Im young, Im 16. So he his playing th hard to get game. I know he still loves me because i talk to his family. How do i play hard to get back, So i can show him its not cool.How do you play hard to get, When he's playing hard to get?
Maybe start trying to get to him and then when he eases up start playing hard to get when you get him chasing you, did that make sence hahaha!How do you play hard to get, When he's playing hard to get?
Do what he is doing...
Honestly don't do it.
HE is the one being immature.
Just be mature about the whole situation.
Maybe start trying to get to him and then when he eases up start playing hard to get when you get him chasing you, did that make sence hahaha!How do you play hard to get, When he's playing hard to get?
Do what he is doing...
Honestly don't do it.
HE is the one being immature.
Just be mature about the whole situation.
How do I play hard to get for this guy??!!! Girls and boys advices!! Please HELP!!?
Hello, everybody!! I want to play hard to get for this guy I like in school. This dude is FINE AS HELL! I want to play hard get so he will want me more. I think he like the cat and mouse game. But I'm not down with that, yo. I don't like wasting my time. But many people said that ';play hard to get'; is the way for him to want me more. That will greater the chances of him asking me out. Okay..I give in. What are the greatest advices to help me? Instructions and all, okay.
Thank you!How do I play hard to get for this guy??!!! Girls and boys advices!! Please HELP!!?
I never believed in that playing hard to get. If you are hard to get, he may not want to even try, then where are you.
If he's that fine, and you want him that badly, then you should make it easier for him to get you, not harder.
Maybe you should ask him out, suggest a movie or something, let him know you are interested in getting to know him better.
Lets face it, if he is as fine as hell, he'll probably have lots of girls chasing him. So playing hard to get, would put you at the end of the line, not up front, where you want to be.
Just go for it, what do you have to lose. It's worth a shot.How do I play hard to get for this guy??!!! Girls and boys advices!! Please HELP!!?
Who ever told you playing hard to get is the kee is lying.....PERIOD!! Maybe they dont want you with him ever think of that..No guy I know wants to waste time chasing a girl who he thinks dosnt want him.....DUMB!! Let him know you like him in some way...If he dosnt respond, then he dosnt like you and you shouldnt waste your time...
If you just want him to play, then play hard to get, if you want a real relationship then be real and upfront about it and see what happens.
talk to him a little, get to know him a little then ignore him.......
Guys are dumb
we don't like mind games
just ask him out
Thank you!How do I play hard to get for this guy??!!! Girls and boys advices!! Please HELP!!?
I never believed in that playing hard to get. If you are hard to get, he may not want to even try, then where are you.
If he's that fine, and you want him that badly, then you should make it easier for him to get you, not harder.
Maybe you should ask him out, suggest a movie or something, let him know you are interested in getting to know him better.
Lets face it, if he is as fine as hell, he'll probably have lots of girls chasing him. So playing hard to get, would put you at the end of the line, not up front, where you want to be.
Just go for it, what do you have to lose. It's worth a shot.How do I play hard to get for this guy??!!! Girls and boys advices!! Please HELP!!?
Who ever told you playing hard to get is the kee is lying.....PERIOD!! Maybe they dont want you with him ever think of that..No guy I know wants to waste time chasing a girl who he thinks dosnt want him.....DUMB!! Let him know you like him in some way...If he dosnt respond, then he dosnt like you and you shouldnt waste your time...
If you just want him to play, then play hard to get, if you want a real relationship then be real and upfront about it and see what happens.
talk to him a little, get to know him a little then ignore him.......
Guys are dumb
we don't like mind games
just ask him out
How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give
This guy I work with in the grocery store is Hott and I catch my self checking him out all the time, We always make eye contact from a distance and when he walks buy me he just looks at me and walks by but continues to look at me and doesnt say anything. When I go through the check out line to get something (just because he's the one running the check out line) We have small talk for like 10 seconds and thats it. When I see him in the store he gives off body language like he is gay, and he's not married but he may be engaged. What do I do to get his attention?How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give
Sorry, possibly gay guys don't give off different signals from other guys or I would have skipped my first husband. When you do your small talk thing, just slip in an innocent sounding question like ';how old do you think you'll be when you get married';. If he says he's engaged now, you'll know. If he says ';never';, ask why and he might tell you if he's gay.How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give
Huh????
Getting anyone's attention is pretty much the same no matter who it happens to be. You either need an ';in,'; or you need to be bold enough to create your own.
You are fortunate in that you two already work together - that's your in. If you're both old enough, try inviting him out for a beer after work, but be passive about it. (If he's going straight home after work, would he be up for stopping off for a beer - NOT like you're asking him out on a date for an evening.) If you're not old enough to do that, try getting your break at the same time he does and use the time to strike up a conversation. Find some common ground - sports you both like, other interests, whatever. Look for an opportunity to meet up outside of work, to watch a game for example.
Use caution while you feel this guy out and determine what he's really all about. Not to discourage you, but we're all human and can tend to see or hear what we want, instead of what's really in front of us. You may interpreting his behavior the way you'd like to think of it, and the last thing you want to do is have him running around the store telling everyone you hit on him when he's got a fiance or something.
Good luck.
I guess you could always flash him the secret gay hand signal, and see how he reacts! Heh, heh, just kidding!
If you are out, then maybe you should try wearing a 'Gay and Proud'; T shirt, or a rainbow pin to the store while off duty. Then when you stop to talk to him, see what he says. If he is gay and is interested, then he will make the next move.
ask him
Sorry, possibly gay guys don't give off different signals from other guys or I would have skipped my first husband. When you do your small talk thing, just slip in an innocent sounding question like ';how old do you think you'll be when you get married';. If he says he's engaged now, you'll know. If he says ';never';, ask why and he might tell you if he's gay.How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give
Huh????
Getting anyone's attention is pretty much the same no matter who it happens to be. You either need an ';in,'; or you need to be bold enough to create your own.
You are fortunate in that you two already work together - that's your in. If you're both old enough, try inviting him out for a beer after work, but be passive about it. (If he's going straight home after work, would he be up for stopping off for a beer - NOT like you're asking him out on a date for an evening.) If you're not old enough to do that, try getting your break at the same time he does and use the time to strike up a conversation. Find some common ground - sports you both like, other interests, whatever. Look for an opportunity to meet up outside of work, to watch a game for example.
Use caution while you feel this guy out and determine what he's really all about. Not to discourage you, but we're all human and can tend to see or hear what we want, instead of what's really in front of us. You may interpreting his behavior the way you'd like to think of it, and the last thing you want to do is have him running around the store telling everyone you hit on him when he's got a fiance or something.
Good luck.
I guess you could always flash him the secret gay hand signal, and see how he reacts! Heh, heh, just kidding!
If you are out, then maybe you should try wearing a 'Gay and Proud'; T shirt, or a rainbow pin to the store while off duty. Then when you stop to talk to him, see what he says. If he is gay and is interested, then he will make the next move.
ask him
Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?
and when we are straight forward (us girls), how can we tell if a guy is into it? i am confused because i really like this guy that i met at the beach..and i thought i made it pretty obvious. so we ended up kissing that night and before it got too hardcore i asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said it was complicated. he kinda resisted me the whole night but i could tell there was an energy between us. however, the next night he came back.. i didnt drink that night unlike the night before (when we kissed) and i kept on apologizing to hiim for coming on so strong. do you think he's interested? i know that if i kissed someone who i didnt like, i would make it a point not to see them , especially since he knew i liked hiim. im confuusssseedd... oh and here's another thing. he was more willing to triple kiss with me and another girl than with just ME...and i am not the type of girl that likes that kind of action and i told him and he said that that was ';good';..hes a moral type of guy .Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?
They like girls that don't assume that every man is the same and all want the same thing. Do all of your girlfriends and you like the same look? the same attitude? the same sense of humor? Probably not... Believe it or not, it's the same with them. Some like straightforwardness while others like timid.Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?
I'd prefer a woman that is shy, but once you get to know her she can turn you on and know which buttons to press...
Yes I can see why its confusing, but if I like a girl then I would try to concentrate just on her and let the triple kissing thing come much much later. It seems that although he's nice, he may got the wrong impression with you being under the influence and all. But the good thing is that he feels guilt, I mean after you brought up the girlfriend thing.
But I'd say just watch your step... because guys can be.... guys!
i would say i like a girl to be in between that. not so straightforward and not so shy. how can you tell? if you're dropping hints and he's picking it.
it seems that from the first night, you stopped him from going farther because of what you asked him: complicated means he's commited to someone.
the second night seems he's interested to a repeat performance, thought about it, doesnt care if he's in a complicated relationship or not.
but if he wants another girl, that's THREESOME. (typical man's sex fantasy!) from this you can tell that he's just into something, and you know what it is.
I just think some guys dont know what they want. Most like to cheat but say they dont. I think he was interested but when you brought up the fact if he was single or not it made him think which alot of guys dont like to do they just like to go with the flow. dont even think about it you seem like a nice person its his loss.
For some guys it is intimidating and awkward if a girl is straight forward. Shy and hard to get can be too cryptic though.
Maybe I'm just a dumbass.
They like girls that don't assume that every man is the same and all want the same thing. Do all of your girlfriends and you like the same look? the same attitude? the same sense of humor? Probably not... Believe it or not, it's the same with them. Some like straightforwardness while others like timid.Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?
I'd prefer a woman that is shy, but once you get to know her she can turn you on and know which buttons to press...
Yes I can see why its confusing, but if I like a girl then I would try to concentrate just on her and let the triple kissing thing come much much later. It seems that although he's nice, he may got the wrong impression with you being under the influence and all. But the good thing is that he feels guilt, I mean after you brought up the girlfriend thing.
But I'd say just watch your step... because guys can be.... guys!
i would say i like a girl to be in between that. not so straightforward and not so shy. how can you tell? if you're dropping hints and he's picking it.
it seems that from the first night, you stopped him from going farther because of what you asked him: complicated means he's commited to someone.
the second night seems he's interested to a repeat performance, thought about it, doesnt care if he's in a complicated relationship or not.
but if he wants another girl, that's THREESOME. (typical man's sex fantasy!) from this you can tell that he's just into something, and you know what it is.
I just think some guys dont know what they want. Most like to cheat but say they dont. I think he was interested but when you brought up the fact if he was single or not it made him think which alot of guys dont like to do they just like to go with the flow. dont even think about it you seem like a nice person its his loss.
For some guys it is intimidating and awkward if a girl is straight forward. Shy and hard to get can be too cryptic though.
Maybe I'm just a dumbass.
How do I play hard to get with this guy?
I'm sort of dating this guy... we hang out periodically and he acts like he likes me but then he says he doesn't do the ';dating'; scene... he just likes to take it one day at a time.. one day I get a vibe from him that he likes me, and then the next day he doesn't answer my calls... thats IT!!!!!! How do I play hard to get w/him cuz obviously throwing myself out there is not the way to go about it... I know he likes me, he compliments me all the time - is he just shy? wtf...How do I play hard to get with this guy?
I LOVE this type of stuff...because I do so much of it myself.
Firstly, from reading your post, you sound like your are kinda desperate to get him to notice you and not play it cool. That's NOT good - it only will encourage him to play hard to get even more.
You have to let him know that two people can play the game - that he is not the centre of your world (even if he is.) For example, if he mentions he sent you a msg or email, pretend you didn't read it because you were too busy and had other priorities. Don't say yes to everything he asks for. Group outings where you and him are part of the group? Don't go to everyone - it will make him miss you more.
The point of playing hard to get is to get the other person to treasure and cherish you for when you are around and miss you when you are not. Be cheeky but don't hurt him.
I will admit it I played it overboard once and it turned out into a mess. He gave up and fell in love with another girl. I regret it very much.How do I play hard to get with this guy?
DO THE SAME THING......
I LOVE this type of stuff...because I do so much of it myself.
Firstly, from reading your post, you sound like your are kinda desperate to get him to notice you and not play it cool. That's NOT good - it only will encourage him to play hard to get even more.
You have to let him know that two people can play the game - that he is not the centre of your world (even if he is.) For example, if he mentions he sent you a msg or email, pretend you didn't read it because you were too busy and had other priorities. Don't say yes to everything he asks for. Group outings where you and him are part of the group? Don't go to everyone - it will make him miss you more.
The point of playing hard to get is to get the other person to treasure and cherish you for when you are around and miss you when you are not. Be cheeky but don't hurt him.
I will admit it I played it overboard once and it turned out into a mess. He gave up and fell in love with another girl. I regret it very much.How do I play hard to get with this guy?
DO THE SAME THING......
How to play hard to get with a guy?
This guy always says he likes me and wants to get with me, but theres this other girl that I think he might be secretly interested in. I want to play hard to get with the boy, because I think it will make him more interested. The other girl always acts like that, and it seems to work for her, so I want to give it a try but I don't really know how.
So I need help,
and no bullshit pleaseHow to play hard to get with a guy?
There comes a point in every person's life when they get sick of the petty head games that are played in the world of dating, and we all wonder, ';Why can't it just be simple?';
The moment I dropped the bullshit head games and just acted real [[no hard to get]], I got the man of my dreams. I didn't hide my feelings from him - and in turn, he didn't hide them from me.
My perspective: If you have to ';play hard to get'; to make someone like you, then there is something wrong. He should like you for the way you are - not because you manipulated him into through childish head games.
Don't play hard to get.How to play hard to get with a guy?
You haven't provided enough information about your situation. how do you know this guy ? how often do you see him? talk to him? call him? text him? If you like him and you need to see if he likes you just ignore him for a little while and see how he reacts. I do seem to find girls more attractive when they aren't letting me know I can have them all the time and when I see they might be interested in someone else or the calls or texts stopped I get more attracted. I wonder what's up
Ok,
If he says hey to you then you sya: hey yourself
If says want to sit with me you say: maybe i do and maybe i dont
If he says how you doing you say: it depends
good luck
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So I need help,
and no bullshit pleaseHow to play hard to get with a guy?
There comes a point in every person's life when they get sick of the petty head games that are played in the world of dating, and we all wonder, ';Why can't it just be simple?';
The moment I dropped the bullshit head games and just acted real [[no hard to get]], I got the man of my dreams. I didn't hide my feelings from him - and in turn, he didn't hide them from me.
My perspective: If you have to ';play hard to get'; to make someone like you, then there is something wrong. He should like you for the way you are - not because you manipulated him into through childish head games.
Don't play hard to get.How to play hard to get with a guy?
You haven't provided enough information about your situation. how do you know this guy ? how often do you see him? talk to him? call him? text him? If you like him and you need to see if he likes you just ignore him for a little while and see how he reacts. I do seem to find girls more attractive when they aren't letting me know I can have them all the time and when I see they might be interested in someone else or the calls or texts stopped I get more attracted. I wonder what's up
Ok,
If he says hey to you then you sya: hey yourself
If says want to sit with me you say: maybe i do and maybe i dont
If he says how you doing you say: it depends
good luck
take care
Ask him out or play hard to get?
What is your opinion
My friend says that its rule #5 of being popular NOT to ask a guy out but to play hard to get but i dont know how to play hard to get and i really want to know if this guy likes me and i REALLY want to go on a date with him
What do i do????Ask him out or play hard to get?
really it depends on the guy...playing hard to get can work if he's the kinda guy that likes a chase. but you don't want to come off as too mysterious. Ignoring them tends to work, especially if you smile everyone once in a while. Not in a weird way or anything but if you smile most guys take that as a sign you may like them, and that mixed with the playing hard to get will probably leave them wondering more about you.So then they may want to know you better. But if you want to know if the guy likes you then just walk past him and smile or say hey or something to get his attention and then see how he reacts.....good luck!Ask him out or play hard to get?
This is what you do dont worry about rule number 5 (WTF) do what ever makes you happy if you feel the need to ask him out then ask him sit down and have a real conversation with him and explaine what you want and then see how he feels....good luck hunny and the popularity thing dont get to caught up in it because when you 21 like me it doesnt matter how popular you where it matters who or what makes you happy
Play medium to get! Seriously lol. Don't be too obvious but don't be too mysterious either! Drop hints every now and then =P
I hate playing hard to get to be honest. I would tell him. Peoplel say you should not let him no you are interested and play hard to get, but I don't believe them. I think you should go for it.
..sweetie, never ask a guy out....but tell him that you like him...
i wouldnt wait to long he could move on quick. play hard to get for a week or two then ask him out if he seems interested. just flirt a little bit with him and first see if he is really someone that you would like to go out with get to know him a little.
playing hard to get is annoying , ask him out
well girl honestly i think it is okay if you ask a guy out, i mean if you really like this guy how are you going to find out unless you tell him maybe he is shy and he is waiting for you to make your move.
Well, first, talk to him, you know, sound real interesting, and then, when he's about to ask you out, say you have to go but you'd love to talk to him later. When you're walking away, walk as sexy as you can, and then look back at him and give him a smile/wink.
I think you should wait to get asked out.
My friend says that its rule #5 of being popular NOT to ask a guy out but to play hard to get but i dont know how to play hard to get and i really want to know if this guy likes me and i REALLY want to go on a date with him
What do i do????Ask him out or play hard to get?
really it depends on the guy...playing hard to get can work if he's the kinda guy that likes a chase. but you don't want to come off as too mysterious. Ignoring them tends to work, especially if you smile everyone once in a while. Not in a weird way or anything but if you smile most guys take that as a sign you may like them, and that mixed with the playing hard to get will probably leave them wondering more about you.So then they may want to know you better. But if you want to know if the guy likes you then just walk past him and smile or say hey or something to get his attention and then see how he reacts.....good luck!Ask him out or play hard to get?
This is what you do dont worry about rule number 5 (WTF) do what ever makes you happy if you feel the need to ask him out then ask him sit down and have a real conversation with him and explaine what you want and then see how he feels....good luck hunny and the popularity thing dont get to caught up in it because when you 21 like me it doesnt matter how popular you where it matters who or what makes you happy
Play medium to get! Seriously lol. Don't be too obvious but don't be too mysterious either! Drop hints every now and then =P
I hate playing hard to get to be honest. I would tell him. Peoplel say you should not let him no you are interested and play hard to get, but I don't believe them. I think you should go for it.
..sweetie, never ask a guy out....but tell him that you like him...
i wouldnt wait to long he could move on quick. play hard to get for a week or two then ask him out if he seems interested. just flirt a little bit with him and first see if he is really someone that you would like to go out with get to know him a little.
playing hard to get is annoying , ask him out
well girl honestly i think it is okay if you ask a guy out, i mean if you really like this guy how are you going to find out unless you tell him maybe he is shy and he is waiting for you to make your move.
Well, first, talk to him, you know, sound real interesting, and then, when he's about to ask you out, say you have to go but you'd love to talk to him later. When you're walking away, walk as sexy as you can, and then look back at him and give him a smile/wink.
I think you should wait to get asked out.
How to play hard to get and keeeep playing hard to get lol??? ?
i like this guy like i really like him but i want to play hard to get but i always seem to give in to him..... what should i do to pretend im not infatuated with him? but i still want to be around him, i dont want to ignore him completely ages 18(me) and 26(him) often see each other at workHow to play hard to get and keeeep playing hard to get lol??? ?
well you can still pay hard to get but if you take it too far you might lose him. Well like flirt with him but at a certain point just walk away How to play hard to get and keeeep playing hard to get lol??? ?
What's the point for such an stand.. you are not fooling anybody else but you..
If you wanna be around him. that's perfectly ok.. unless you are committed to someone else...
and secondly, you can pretend for a very long time...anyways.
If you play too hard to get, you'll never get got. Know what I mean?
stop playing games. its a relationship killer.
well you can still pay hard to get but if you take it too far you might lose him. Well like flirt with him but at a certain point just walk away How to play hard to get and keeeep playing hard to get lol??? ?
What's the point for such an stand.. you are not fooling anybody else but you..
If you wanna be around him. that's perfectly ok.. unless you are committed to someone else...
and secondly, you can pretend for a very long time...anyways.
If you play too hard to get, you'll never get got. Know what I mean?
stop playing games. its a relationship killer.
How to play hard to get?
okay well theres this guy, and he played around with me before and now is starting to text me again and acting just like before... i don't want to give in, and i want to play hard to get. before, he used to send me mixed signals and it used to drive me crazy.
how can i play hard to get?How to play hard to get?
little things like don't return his text messages straight away be coy with him.How to play hard to get?
do the same give mixed signals make him know ur sexi but then make him not know it flirt wit him
how can i play hard to get?How to play hard to get?
little things like don't return his text messages straight away be coy with him.How to play hard to get?
do the same give mixed signals make him know ur sexi but then make him not know it flirt wit him
How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?
i really like this guy and i think he likes me too and i dont want to look too into him by always picking up his phone calls and stuff like that but i also dont like to play games because thats childish to me so how do i make him not loose interest...for example how long do i wait after he texts me to reply back and if i ignore his phone call do i ignore it for a whole day and call him back the next day or just wait for a couple of hours...someone teach me how to play the game to keep him on his toes without overdoing it.... i hate games but my friends say thats the only way to keep a guy still liking you because if you always seem available he'll loose interest.How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?
there's nothing more sleezy than being easy. its a GREAT thing that u play hard to get. that exactly whats supposed to happen. if u really like the boy then he should work for your attention. u cant just have a relationship with random guys they have to earn it. he'll respect u and cherish u more by doing so. ;) theres no ';deadline'; to playing hard to get. just do it until u FEEL it's appropriate to establish a relationship. long enough that u know he's for real and that he's not a jerk pretending to be a nice boy.How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?
Yes play hard to get... i would say dont return his call until like couple hours because then he'll be wondering why didnt you pick up or called back and you dont want to call the next day when he kinda forgot he even called you. Well i think your doing perfect cause i have sooo many s-l-u-t-s in my school they playy so easy to get its not even funny lol Good luck :)
As a guy we absolutly hate that. Heres how to play the game : go in head first. When you tease him and play your little games hell loose intrest and move right on leaving you and your excotic teasing *** behind.
there's nothing more sleezy than being easy. its a GREAT thing that u play hard to get. that exactly whats supposed to happen. if u really like the boy then he should work for your attention. u cant just have a relationship with random guys they have to earn it. he'll respect u and cherish u more by doing so. ;) theres no ';deadline'; to playing hard to get. just do it until u FEEL it's appropriate to establish a relationship. long enough that u know he's for real and that he's not a jerk pretending to be a nice boy.How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?
Yes play hard to get... i would say dont return his call until like couple hours because then he'll be wondering why didnt you pick up or called back and you dont want to call the next day when he kinda forgot he even called you. Well i think your doing perfect cause i have sooo many s-l-u-t-s in my school they playy so easy to get its not even funny lol Good luck :)
As a guy we absolutly hate that. Heres how to play the game : go in head first. When you tease him and play your little games hell loose intrest and move right on leaving you and your excotic teasing *** behind.
How do i play hard to get?
i wanna play hard to get with this guy that i like.what should i do?How do i play hard to get?
just smile when he talks to you.How do i play hard to get?
From time to time ignore him. Then once he starts giving you attention ignore him but every once in a while act flirty so at least he knows you're interested. But when you flirt do in a sort of obnoxious way to where he knows you're kidding but it's cute.
Be careful not to over do it, but try flirting with other guys when he's around. Make sure you don't completely ignore your man though. Also make sure your not always the one approaching him, wait for him to initiate conversations. Don't drag on the playing hard to get too long though because he may eventually just give up.
Pretend with him that you don't like him! Play hard but carefully!
hahaa ok. ive been taught by a dating expert haha, so listen close! first, if u hang out with him a lot, dont act like u HAVE to talk. have the attitude of, ';im worth ur time, and i dont have to talk if i dont wana.'; also, if u think hes staring at u, DONT LOOK!!! if u wanna know if hes staring at u, look past him, than when u turn back around, look at him briefly with short eye contact. it works. plus, always laugh realllly loud and act like u dont need a guy. good luck!
Wanna know what I do? Don't stare at him every moment. What he says - it's not funny (unless it is like REALLY funny, you have to give some clue you like him). Make HIM do all the first moves (starting converstaions, walking next to you). And when he talks to other girls in front of you, you don't give a foot about it. Warning: Playing hard to get may disinterest guy or the results will take a long time to happen. But whatever you do, don't keep this up a long time. Once you've had a good amount of conversations, that's when you really start showing interest and you're the one who says hi first.
act like you dont care
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6H3ZHRltvc
u have gotta not do wat they want but flirt while you do this for example if he gives you a hug and trys to kiss you put your finger to his lips give him a cute no teeth smile and say not yet and then hug him. might not be that but that same sort of concept. does he like you cause if you say if he does or if he doesnt or whether you dont know i can give you alot more help :)
im a guy and it drives me nuts when a girl flirts with me and then tottally stops for a while.
(make cute smileys too even when ur not in a good mood) ex. ; P : ) =)
hope i helped. lol
just smile when he talks to you.How do i play hard to get?
From time to time ignore him. Then once he starts giving you attention ignore him but every once in a while act flirty so at least he knows you're interested. But when you flirt do in a sort of obnoxious way to where he knows you're kidding but it's cute.
Be careful not to over do it, but try flirting with other guys when he's around. Make sure you don't completely ignore your man though. Also make sure your not always the one approaching him, wait for him to initiate conversations. Don't drag on the playing hard to get too long though because he may eventually just give up.
Pretend with him that you don't like him! Play hard but carefully!
hahaa ok. ive been taught by a dating expert haha, so listen close! first, if u hang out with him a lot, dont act like u HAVE to talk. have the attitude of, ';im worth ur time, and i dont have to talk if i dont wana.'; also, if u think hes staring at u, DONT LOOK!!! if u wanna know if hes staring at u, look past him, than when u turn back around, look at him briefly with short eye contact. it works. plus, always laugh realllly loud and act like u dont need a guy. good luck!
Wanna know what I do? Don't stare at him every moment. What he says - it's not funny (unless it is like REALLY funny, you have to give some clue you like him). Make HIM do all the first moves (starting converstaions, walking next to you). And when he talks to other girls in front of you, you don't give a foot about it. Warning: Playing hard to get may disinterest guy or the results will take a long time to happen. But whatever you do, don't keep this up a long time. Once you've had a good amount of conversations, that's when you really start showing interest and you're the one who says hi first.
act like you dont care
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6H3ZHRltvc
u have gotta not do wat they want but flirt while you do this for example if he gives you a hug and trys to kiss you put your finger to his lips give him a cute no teeth smile and say not yet and then hug him. might not be that but that same sort of concept. does he like you cause if you say if he does or if he doesnt or whether you dont know i can give you alot more help :)
im a guy and it drives me nuts when a girl flirts with me and then tottally stops for a while.
(make cute smileys too even when ur not in a good mood) ex. ; P : ) =)
hope i helped. lol
How to play hard to get with a guy?
i really like this guy and i wanna take a different approach with him and play hard to get however whenever i try to play hard to get i come off as either a ***** or not interested at all, anyone know how to play hard to get the RIGHT way and make the guy want you more?. if he asks me to call him (which he does about everyother night) should i call him? if we've been on the phone for awhile do i get off? or is it cute to fall asleep on the phone?
HELP PLEASE !!!!!How to play hard to get with a guy?
just tell him you really like him. date him!How to play hard to get with a guy?
To tell you the truth most guys don鈥檛 like games but if you must play them the way to do it is mess around with like should him that you like him the shy away from him thats the only way
there is no right way to play hard to get. Boys dont want to play your stupid games. You get what you have coming to you by being a jerk.
well, take this with a grain of salt.. but usually when someone plays hard to get they switch off and on from being cold to being open and warm. It doesn't stop at one or the other.free anti virus bridge loan
HELP PLEASE !!!!!How to play hard to get with a guy?
just tell him you really like him. date him!How to play hard to get with a guy?
To tell you the truth most guys don鈥檛 like games but if you must play them the way to do it is mess around with like should him that you like him the shy away from him thats the only way
there is no right way to play hard to get. Boys dont want to play your stupid games. You get what you have coming to you by being a jerk.
well, take this with a grain of salt.. but usually when someone plays hard to get they switch off and on from being cold to being open and warm. It doesn't stop at one or the other.
How can i play these guys? ?
ok, i need straightforward detailed answers, no jugement. A few months a go I met Guy A. We hung out a little, had sex. But i didnt really like him, im not sure if i can say he really liked me. Anyway, time went by and we stopped hanging together. No hard feelings, I was ok with it. Cause I just wanted to be friends from the beginning. Time goes by and I met Guy B. He is really nice, but the sex is horrible. So I started skillfully avoiding him. One day we found out we both know Guy A. We all live in the same apartment complex, its really a big place tho. Suddenly, Guy A starts talking to me again asking if i want to hang out. And to me, it looks like Guy B told him to call me since i was avoiding him. Kind of a test to see if I was gonna do something with Guy A. I don't like any of these guys, and if they are scheming against me, How should I deal with this situation. I'm supposed to see both of them today. Should I see both, just Guy A, just Guy B, give reasons for your answer. Maybe I shouldn't see any of them. But I have to get back at them for scheming this if they are, or am I just paranoid.How can i play these guys? ?
no problem or questions will ever be finished if your not gonna face them. be a strong and fair person face them both or ask them a straight question. survival of the fittest! GO GIRL! How can i play these guys? ?
y would u turn down guy B just cause of his bed skills...?
shallow tsk tsk
plus how bad can he be... -.-
no problem or questions will ever be finished if your not gonna face them. be a strong and fair person face them both or ask them a straight question. survival of the fittest! GO GIRL! How can i play these guys? ?
y would u turn down guy B just cause of his bed skills...?
shallow tsk tsk
plus how bad can he be... -.-
How do i play hard to get with this guy?
yeah so how do i play hard to get??? i want him to chase me, not the other way around! im the one that text him...but only sometimes he text me. how do i play hard to gettttHow do i play hard to get with this guy?
I have found that in the friendship I'm forming right now, that playing hard to get is FUN! It's cute to see the guy's reaction. So basically playing hard to get means that you DONT call him, DONT text him, and DONT chase him. Men like the hunt. If a guy wants you, he will come and get you, but you have to let the guys do the chasing. It took me so long to figure that out, but as of now, it's working like a charm. If he doesn't respond to you not responding, then he's just not that into you.....sorry. Good Luck!!How do i play hard to get with this guy?
Do not no why you want to play hard to get, But i am thinking you texting him is not going to help. You want to play the game just leave him be, and see if he comes after you. But if you like him, and really want him to your bf are what ever, I would not try very long for another girl that nos what she is looking for may end up with him..
be a little bipolar with him (lol) let him think your really into him then just pretend like you couldn't care less and he'll chase you!
dont answer him for a few days hell realize that he misses you because hes not getting the usual attention you give him
Becareful he may think your not worth all the drama
totally ignore him and act as if yu dont want him! =]
Go hot and cold. lol
I have found that in the friendship I'm forming right now, that playing hard to get is FUN! It's cute to see the guy's reaction. So basically playing hard to get means that you DONT call him, DONT text him, and DONT chase him. Men like the hunt. If a guy wants you, he will come and get you, but you have to let the guys do the chasing. It took me so long to figure that out, but as of now, it's working like a charm. If he doesn't respond to you not responding, then he's just not that into you.....sorry. Good Luck!!How do i play hard to get with this guy?
Do not no why you want to play hard to get, But i am thinking you texting him is not going to help. You want to play the game just leave him be, and see if he comes after you. But if you like him, and really want him to your bf are what ever, I would not try very long for another girl that nos what she is looking for may end up with him..
be a little bipolar with him (lol) let him think your really into him then just pretend like you couldn't care less and he'll chase you!
dont answer him for a few days hell realize that he misses you because hes not getting the usual attention you give him
Becareful he may think your not worth all the drama
totally ignore him and act as if yu dont want him! =]
Go hot and cold. lol
How come he tells me he likes me but doesnt talk to me when hes with his friends?
I rlly like this guy but play hard to get and i think he is now too. He'll text me and say he rlly likes me and that he wants to chill but im always busy so we havent yet but at school he doesnt rlly talk to me when hes with his friends. what does this mean?How come he tells me he likes me but doesnt talk to me when hes with his friends?
He could be shy around you.
He could be shy around you.
How can you tell if a guy is playing hard to get or .....?
My ex bf broke up wit me 3 weeks ago for wat i think was a very dumb reason: Me n my friends had rented a cabin in Poconos n were goin there for a weekend. I had invited my bf eventho he really doesnt like any of my friends, cus the guys r always hitting on the girls n the girls are known for being party girls n he doesnt like it wen I drink. Well he said he didnt wana go n that he didnt want me going on my own so if i went on the trip witout him he would break up with me. Well I told him I was goin anyway n so he dumped me. I called him n left him a msg sayin I love him n I wana be with him n we can try n work something out. He didnt call me back. n ive called him a lot n very few times he picks up n wen he does his like indiferent. n his called me a few times -some ive answered some ive not-. So do u guys think he was just lookin for an excuse to break up? or he just wants me to show him how much I reale wana b wit him? (we went out for 1.5 yr)How can you tell if a guy is playing hard to get or .....?
hmmm....i think thats a dumb reason too....sounds a bit controlling in my opinion...so in a way i think it was an excuse but i think it was also a test....on how much you loved him...because no offence but in his opinion if you loved him you would listen to him...not trying to be rude just imoHow can you tell if a guy is playing hard to get or .....?
could be either...i mean if u have been going for a year and a half and this happened just like that u have to think...has there been any other talk of breaking up before? were u guys still fighting about something already...if the answer is no everything is fine...then im not really sure what hes thinking but i can understand...some of my gfs friends i dont like...i dont mind her chilling with them sometimes but sometimes i do ask her not to go...tho she usually goes anyways lol and i just have to deal with it...and if hes really serious about ending the relationship...if hes bluffing or not id say just stay....if hes testing u...u pass...if hes not....ur showing him u really care and that if he feels strongly about something u will back him up on that...of corse that is if ur relationship means more to u then a weekend...it would be fun...but would it be worth it?
hmmm....i think thats a dumb reason too....sounds a bit controlling in my opinion...so in a way i think it was an excuse but i think it was also a test....on how much you loved him...because no offence but in his opinion if you loved him you would listen to him...not trying to be rude just imoHow can you tell if a guy is playing hard to get or .....?
could be either...i mean if u have been going for a year and a half and this happened just like that u have to think...has there been any other talk of breaking up before? were u guys still fighting about something already...if the answer is no everything is fine...then im not really sure what hes thinking but i can understand...some of my gfs friends i dont like...i dont mind her chilling with them sometimes but sometimes i do ask her not to go...tho she usually goes anyways lol and i just have to deal with it...and if hes really serious about ending the relationship...if hes bluffing or not id say just stay....if hes testing u...u pass...if hes not....ur showing him u really care and that if he feels strongly about something u will back him up on that...of corse that is if ur relationship means more to u then a weekend...it would be fun...but would it be worth it?
How to play hard to get with a guy you like?
and be good at it? best tips? thnx %26lt;3How to play hard to get with a guy you like?
why you have to do this? just act normal..think it's cute but if you get overboard it kills
just an advice:
if you do those thing he might as well think that you're not interested in him (this is always come as 1st thought, more less try to rethink).. not so many people like to be played around and get confused.. they got something else to think about (job, study, problem arises)..if your guy is not into games you gonna loose him faster than you could imagine..don't be a burden be a helper
try ask those who does those things..did she/he get married happily in the end? is she/he is happy now? they suffer more actually..
something to share:
once n i like this girl.. at first she talk to me but then suddenly she act like she don't care..not replying my text and ignoring my call..walk away ignoring me..i think she enjoy doing it that but i don't (actually she overdo it)..everyone has their own limits and when it got too much they exploded.. at first i do the chase but after all the confusion I stop calling or text her.. after one month she start calling me asking why i didn't call her anymore said that she's been waiting for my reply..i lost interest in her just because i feel that i can't trust her anymore..try to give her a chance but then she did it again (yay)..right now i don't care if she likes me or not, to me there's a 'better' person out there for her..How to play hard to get with a guy you like?
Don't play hard to get-- it doesn't end well. Don't be easy and ';OMG ILY!!!';-- play it cool-- but don't give him the wrong idea.
playing games will make him have no guilt in cheating on you
thats easy - just act like he is no big deal -
Now This is my forte! All my friends are so damn easy, and Im the only hard to get one, and trust me it turns out really well in the end. You cant just say things to make you hard to get, you have to think it. Don't settle for anything less than the best of your selection. Turn guys you dont really like down. Dont call guys (my friends do that and the guy they like thinks they are stalker and he asked me out) wait for them to call, and if they dont, they are not interested. (Your to good for them) and my number one rule do NOT NOT NOT, sleep with them, until marraige....well maybe(what im trying to say is dont get drunk and give bj's, and have sex!) . Dont makeout on your first day of going out. You have to make him want, and work for you. Tease a little bit, like if your bf, or crush says something erotic to you, then say something like ';mabey';, *wink* and walk away. Good luck!
don't unless u are still in 3RD GRADE
Don't play games with a guy just be a respectable lady and don't be easy.
flash him one day then when ever he comes hear you act all conservitave and zip your jacket or cross your arms.
if you dont want to do that then flirt a lil one day so he knows then just make him feel like he is not important
im sorry to me playing hard to get is saying im not interested --- so if he thinks like me (that no means no) he will not chase and lose interest --- be honest and dont play games --- best wishes
just act like you would with a guy that u absolutely had no interest in whats so ever but still wanted to be nice. For example just talk to him only if he talks to you. dont make too much eye contact, but still seam available, u dont want to make him not interested in you if he know that you want nothing to do with him.
Why would you even want to ??? I get bored instantly with girls like that and move right along...
personally, me being a guy. i dont really like it when a girl plays hard to get, or at least really hard to get. if done wrong it can make it seem like the girl isnt interested at all. so if you do decide to play hard to get, dont completely ignore him, make it show that your interested, without making it seem like you really like him. just make him work hard, to a certain extent. cause a lot of guys dont like to work hard, although i think all good relationships require some work.
Well I hope you dont like the guy. If I was him I would move on very quickly.
One word: Don't. A lot of guys just get pissed off and stop dealing with you if they think you're playing games with them. Just be real. You don't have to be obsessed with them or whatever, but just get to know them without messing with their heads. If you do happen to find a guy that chases after you more because your playing hard to get, he's prolly desperate and thats not the type of guy you'll want to date.
Just don't always be so available.
don't do that. guys get really bored with that kind of stuff. i know i do. it's annoying. just be yourself.
if he asks u out say lemme think about it and wink, flirt w/ other boys they get jealous, and it depends on ur rep to if uve gone out with a bunch of guys u should be good 2 go Hope this helps!
dont play games wiv guys, they find you out sooner or later and **** you off.
playing hard to get played out
guys have too many other things to worry about than a girl that plays games. just make him a sandwich and let it be known that you like him and you got him.
The way to play 'hard to get' is to flirt and be friendly with the guy but not too close. Let him go on the answer machine several times before you speak to him and if you regularly see him out, show him that you like him by talking to him and being friendly but surround yourself with other male and female company as well. The best tip is simply : don't be overly available and NEVER appear too needy or interested. Nobody likes a needy person and the same goes for friendships of the same sex. Needy people are energy drainers and take more than they give. If a guy thinks a girl is needy or easy, there's no challenge in the whole thing. Good luck.
Hey, playing too hard to get will keep a lot of guys from trying.
I'm sorry, but most of us guys just don't get the games.
My best tip is not to. It's dishonest and no way to begin a relationship. It reinforces the idea that all girls play games, which I personally resent. Be real. Then you can expect the same of him. But if you play games, don't feel justified in complaining when/if he ever lies to you.
why you have to do this? just act normal..think it's cute but if you get overboard it kills
just an advice:
if you do those thing he might as well think that you're not interested in him (this is always come as 1st thought, more less try to rethink).. not so many people like to be played around and get confused.. they got something else to think about (job, study, problem arises)..if your guy is not into games you gonna loose him faster than you could imagine..don't be a burden be a helper
try ask those who does those things..did she/he get married happily in the end? is she/he is happy now? they suffer more actually..
something to share:
once n i like this girl.. at first she talk to me but then suddenly she act like she don't care..not replying my text and ignoring my call..walk away ignoring me..i think she enjoy doing it that but i don't (actually she overdo it)..everyone has their own limits and when it got too much they exploded.. at first i do the chase but after all the confusion I stop calling or text her.. after one month she start calling me asking why i didn't call her anymore said that she's been waiting for my reply..i lost interest in her just because i feel that i can't trust her anymore..try to give her a chance but then she did it again (yay)..right now i don't care if she likes me or not, to me there's a 'better' person out there for her..How to play hard to get with a guy you like?
Don't play hard to get-- it doesn't end well. Don't be easy and ';OMG ILY!!!';-- play it cool-- but don't give him the wrong idea.
playing games will make him have no guilt in cheating on you
thats easy - just act like he is no big deal -
Now This is my forte! All my friends are so damn easy, and Im the only hard to get one, and trust me it turns out really well in the end. You cant just say things to make you hard to get, you have to think it. Don't settle for anything less than the best of your selection. Turn guys you dont really like down. Dont call guys (my friends do that and the guy they like thinks they are stalker and he asked me out) wait for them to call, and if they dont, they are not interested. (Your to good for them) and my number one rule do NOT NOT NOT, sleep with them, until marraige....well maybe(what im trying to say is dont get drunk and give bj's, and have sex!) . Dont makeout on your first day of going out. You have to make him want, and work for you. Tease a little bit, like if your bf, or crush says something erotic to you, then say something like ';mabey';, *wink* and walk away. Good luck!
don't unless u are still in 3RD GRADE
Don't play games with a guy just be a respectable lady and don't be easy.
flash him one day then when ever he comes hear you act all conservitave and zip your jacket or cross your arms.
if you dont want to do that then flirt a lil one day so he knows then just make him feel like he is not important
im sorry to me playing hard to get is saying im not interested --- so if he thinks like me (that no means no) he will not chase and lose interest --- be honest and dont play games --- best wishes
just act like you would with a guy that u absolutely had no interest in whats so ever but still wanted to be nice. For example just talk to him only if he talks to you. dont make too much eye contact, but still seam available, u dont want to make him not interested in you if he know that you want nothing to do with him.
Why would you even want to ??? I get bored instantly with girls like that and move right along...
personally, me being a guy. i dont really like it when a girl plays hard to get, or at least really hard to get. if done wrong it can make it seem like the girl isnt interested at all. so if you do decide to play hard to get, dont completely ignore him, make it show that your interested, without making it seem like you really like him. just make him work hard, to a certain extent. cause a lot of guys dont like to work hard, although i think all good relationships require some work.
Well I hope you dont like the guy. If I was him I would move on very quickly.
One word: Don't. A lot of guys just get pissed off and stop dealing with you if they think you're playing games with them. Just be real. You don't have to be obsessed with them or whatever, but just get to know them without messing with their heads. If you do happen to find a guy that chases after you more because your playing hard to get, he's prolly desperate and thats not the type of guy you'll want to date.
Just don't always be so available.
don't do that. guys get really bored with that kind of stuff. i know i do. it's annoying. just be yourself.
if he asks u out say lemme think about it and wink, flirt w/ other boys they get jealous, and it depends on ur rep to if uve gone out with a bunch of guys u should be good 2 go Hope this helps!
dont play games wiv guys, they find you out sooner or later and **** you off.
playing hard to get played out
guys have too many other things to worry about than a girl that plays games. just make him a sandwich and let it be known that you like him and you got him.
The way to play 'hard to get' is to flirt and be friendly with the guy but not too close. Let him go on the answer machine several times before you speak to him and if you regularly see him out, show him that you like him by talking to him and being friendly but surround yourself with other male and female company as well. The best tip is simply : don't be overly available and NEVER appear too needy or interested. Nobody likes a needy person and the same goes for friendships of the same sex. Needy people are energy drainers and take more than they give. If a guy thinks a girl is needy or easy, there's no challenge in the whole thing. Good luck.
Hey, playing too hard to get will keep a lot of guys from trying.
I'm sorry, but most of us guys just don't get the games.
My best tip is not to. It's dishonest and no way to begin a relationship. It reinforces the idea that all girls play games, which I personally resent. Be real. Then you can expect the same of him. But if you play games, don't feel justified in complaining when/if he ever lies to you.
How do you play hard to get?
I am a 21 year old female. I have never played hard to get and have always gotten in a relationship with a guy and given him everything from the start. Needless to say, i was never a challenge and the relationships never lasted. how do i play hard to get and get the guy to like me more and more without him losing interest in me. i always thought the guy would lose interest so i never tried it. and how long do i play hard to get? when i do accept a date, how far should i go on the first date? like should i make out on the first date? i would like to learn how to play hard to get without losing the guys interest.How do you play hard to get?
Playing 'hard to get' is easy, you just limit communication and intimacy while continuing to flirt and draw their attention.
But I'm not sure that is the best technique to get what you say you are pursuing. You state you want to have a good relationship and to keep the guy around.
To do that: Find out what he wants in a long term partner, and see if you can become some of those things. After a short time, ';playing hard to get'; stops working. What will make a relationship is to find the symbiotic things that you can both do for each other to help you reach your long term goals.
How far on the first date? Here is probably where ';playing hard to get'; does have value. Err on the side of doing less. If it will be a good long term relationship, then it won't probably fail because you weren't physically aggressive on the first date. Wait a few dates before trying to ignite his passion. Let him create demand and wonder in his brain before you supply the goods.
Playing 'hard to get' is easy, you just limit communication and intimacy while continuing to flirt and draw their attention.
But I'm not sure that is the best technique to get what you say you are pursuing. You state you want to have a good relationship and to keep the guy around.
To do that: Find out what he wants in a long term partner, and see if you can become some of those things. After a short time, ';playing hard to get'; stops working. What will make a relationship is to find the symbiotic things that you can both do for each other to help you reach your long term goals.
How far on the first date? Here is probably where ';playing hard to get'; does have value. Err on the side of doing less. If it will be a good long term relationship, then it won't probably fail because you weren't physically aggressive on the first date. Wait a few dates before trying to ignite his passion. Let him create demand and wonder in his brain before you supply the goods.
After you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?
ME AND THIS GUY WERE TALKING FOR ABOUT A MONTH. WE WOO ULD JOKE,TEASE, AND TALK TO EACH OTHER. WELL HE WOULD TALK ABOUT SEX ALOT AND IT WAS AGGRAVATING AT TIMES BUT IT WAS A TURN ON. THE PROBLEM WAS I WAS A VIRGIN AND I DIDN'T WANT TO BE ATTACHED TO HIM, GO AGAINST MY MORALS, AND GET PREG OR HAVE AN STD. I TOLD HIM ABOUT AND HE RESPECTED IT, BUT AT THE SAME TIME I KNEW I WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. WELL WE WENT TO A PLACE TO DO IT BUT WE REALLY COULDNT DO MUCH BECAUSE WE WERE AT A PUBLIC PLAY AND MADE ME FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE THAN ANY GUY. WELL AFTER THAT HE TEXTED ME AND WE TALKED ABOUT IT AND HE WAS REALLY COOL ABOUT IT. WELL THE NEXT DAY HE ASKED ME HOW I WHAT I WAS DOING AND WE JUST HAD LIKE A REGULAR CONVERSATION. HOWEVER, I STILL KINDA WHAT THIS GUY AS A BOYFRIEND IN THE NEAR FUTURE AND I WANT TO MAKE HIM WANT MORE SOOOOOOOOOOOOO CAN I STILL PLAYED HARD TO GET.After you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?
maybe not.. you made out alreadyAfter you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?
No thanks for description I hate caps lock.
You can't play hard to get because I mean that's it theres nothing else to get!
NO BECAUSE WHAT IS THERE TO PLAY HARD TO GET FOR? HES ALREADY REACHED HIS GOAL.
TURN OFF CAPS.
No. Because he got it. There's nothing hard to get anymore. It's all easy for him now!
stop shouting and breath
that is bad thing
so your not even with this guy.....!!!???!!!
yes u can not only with one but with anyone
there is nothing to get hard but still u feel like having go on it
maybe not.. you made out alreadyAfter you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?
No thanks for description I hate caps lock.
You can't play hard to get because I mean that's it theres nothing else to get!
NO BECAUSE WHAT IS THERE TO PLAY HARD TO GET FOR? HES ALREADY REACHED HIS GOAL.
TURN OFF CAPS.
No. Because he got it. There's nothing hard to get anymore. It's all easy for him now!
stop shouting and breath
that is bad thing
so your not even with this guy.....!!!???!!!
yes u can not only with one but with anyone
there is nothing to get hard but still u feel like having go on it
How to play hard to get....?
how do you play hard to get with a guy......but not too much tho...cuz he will just quit trying.... i want his mind wondering...give me ideas pleaseHow to play hard to get....?
be all over him and flirty, and then try ignore him until he tries to get your attentionHow to play hard to get....?
Ur name is chase and ur asking that?
be all over him and flirty, and then try ignore him until he tries to get your attentionHow to play hard to get....?
Ur name is chase and ur asking that?
How do you play hard to get with a guy?
like i dont get the hard to get game
does it it even work?
and how do you even play hard to get
so confused hahaHow do you play hard to get with a guy?
Check out this article on the matter:
http://www.andhranews.net/Technology/200鈥?/a>How do you play hard to get with a guy?
No it does NOT work I repeat it does NOT work. I have friends who have tried that and it failed them miserably. This ';game'; is simply just a girl ignoring the guy they like because they think that the guy will want to go after them more. Some girls ignore their text messages, they don't say hi like at school, they basically just pretend they don't care about the guy, despite they know they want the guy badly. Its confusing I know but yeah it's a stupid thing to do because the guy might just give up and go crazy.
Don't. Unless he's very, very experienced with women, or a rockstar, it won't work. He'll just get frustrated.
Toying with someone's affections is not an ethical thing to do.
why play games, if he likes you and you like him, cut to the chasefree anti virus bridge loan
does it it even work?
and how do you even play hard to get
so confused hahaHow do you play hard to get with a guy?
Check out this article on the matter:
http://www.andhranews.net/Technology/200鈥?/a>How do you play hard to get with a guy?
No it does NOT work I repeat it does NOT work. I have friends who have tried that and it failed them miserably. This ';game'; is simply just a girl ignoring the guy they like because they think that the guy will want to go after them more. Some girls ignore their text messages, they don't say hi like at school, they basically just pretend they don't care about the guy, despite they know they want the guy badly. Its confusing I know but yeah it's a stupid thing to do because the guy might just give up and go crazy.
Don't. Unless he's very, very experienced with women, or a rockstar, it won't work. He'll just get frustrated.
Toying with someone's affections is not an ethical thing to do.
why play games, if he likes you and you like him, cut to the chase
How do you play hard to get?
Okay well I feel like recently all the guys have liked me and then if I like one we will talk for like a week and then he with play hard to get. I'm tired of it and I think its my turn to play hard to get. Help me. How do I play hard to get?How do you play hard to get?
don't play games, they're stupid.
But if you really want to play hard to get, i'd say you kick the guy in the balls everytime he tries to talk to you, that will keep him away, if that's what you are going forHow do you play hard to get?
You don't. People like you are annoying.
don't play games, they're stupid.
But if you really want to play hard to get, i'd say you kick the guy in the balls everytime he tries to talk to you, that will keep him away, if that's what you are going forHow do you play hard to get?
You don't. People like you are annoying.
How do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?
I LIKE HIM A LOT AND HE LIKES ME AND WERE DATING BUT I HEARD FROM A SOURCE THAT HES TRYING TO PLAY HARD TO GET LIKE TEASE ME AND ACT LIKE HE IS NOT ';TOO'; INTERESTED.AND IM A BIG TEASE ALREADY BUT WITH HIM I GET INTIMIDATED LIKE I CANT TEASE AS WELL AS I WOULD WITH ANOTHER GUY.SO HOW DO I TEASE/PLAY HARD TO GET?How do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?
quit playing gamesHow do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?
That is too funny.
you heard from a 'source'
yikes, that just screams bad communication in your relationship.
why are you overanalyzing so much? quit playing mind games and act yourself. you should be comfortable around him. teasing is fun but taking it to this level... jesus, too muhc effort.
if you play hard to get he may get the idea of you not being interested at all. Since you know he is playing hard to get (which means he actually does like you) there is no need for you to also play hard to get. He wants you to flirt, so play his game. Atleast for a lil while, and then just stop. He'll know you were interested and then hopefully feel you got tired of trying to ';make him notice';, and then he'll come after you.
I guess thats what you'll do, if your into games like that. I personally wouldn't waste my time. If he is really interested, he needs to just step up and be a man. But I guess a lil fun won't hurt anyone.
why would you want to do that? that would lead to a vicious cycle of sadness, haha but seriously talk to him, its not cool to play hard to get, some people might get hurt.. and y would u want to play hard to get if you're dating him already?
Go down to Blockbuster and get the movie ';Gone With The Wind.'; It was on TV this weekend. Pay attention to the character Scarlett O'Hara. She is one chick who knows how to play hard to get with Rhett Butler. Once you watch that movie, you'll know how to do it. Also get the movie ';Lovestory'; with Ali McGraw and Ryan O'Neal. Ali McGraw played hard to get with Ryan O'Neal in Lovestory. You'll be educated for sure then.
Btw, you have to start from the very begining of a relationship (before he even ask you for a date) for it to work. Not after you've already started dating him. It's too late then. Actually, playin' hard to get is simply.... easy to be with and hard to get. Because you have values, principles, and integrity.
If your already dating why are you playing games? Stop relying on ';sources'; and start asking what he likes/doesn't like so that you can actually keep him around.
quit playing gamesHow do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?
That is too funny.
you heard from a 'source'
yikes, that just screams bad communication in your relationship.
why are you overanalyzing so much? quit playing mind games and act yourself. you should be comfortable around him. teasing is fun but taking it to this level... jesus, too muhc effort.
if you play hard to get he may get the idea of you not being interested at all. Since you know he is playing hard to get (which means he actually does like you) there is no need for you to also play hard to get. He wants you to flirt, so play his game. Atleast for a lil while, and then just stop. He'll know you were interested and then hopefully feel you got tired of trying to ';make him notice';, and then he'll come after you.
I guess thats what you'll do, if your into games like that. I personally wouldn't waste my time. If he is really interested, he needs to just step up and be a man. But I guess a lil fun won't hurt anyone.
why would you want to do that? that would lead to a vicious cycle of sadness, haha but seriously talk to him, its not cool to play hard to get, some people might get hurt.. and y would u want to play hard to get if you're dating him already?
Go down to Blockbuster and get the movie ';Gone With The Wind.'; It was on TV this weekend. Pay attention to the character Scarlett O'Hara. She is one chick who knows how to play hard to get with Rhett Butler. Once you watch that movie, you'll know how to do it. Also get the movie ';Lovestory'; with Ali McGraw and Ryan O'Neal. Ali McGraw played hard to get with Ryan O'Neal in Lovestory. You'll be educated for sure then.
Btw, you have to start from the very begining of a relationship (before he even ask you for a date) for it to work. Not after you've already started dating him. It's too late then. Actually, playin' hard to get is simply.... easy to be with and hard to get. Because you have values, principles, and integrity.
If your already dating why are you playing games? Stop relying on ';sources'; and start asking what he likes/doesn't like so that you can actually keep him around.
How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?
It was a lot easier in the 50's when guys worked to get a girl to go out with him. but now it seems like if you want to see if they're really interested and don't JUMP at the chance to go out with them, they'll move on and find some girl who's easier.How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?
then don't get too hard to get. be yourself, make a good impression that makes him keeps chasing you. but if he went away and finds an easier girl, then maybe he's just trying to get back at you by making you jealous or he's just not for you. you wouldn't wanna be called easy would you?How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?
i think that in the very very beginning of a relationship there may be some 'playing' hard to get, but, after a while...yep, it is a dealbreaker when it goes on seemingly endlessly. it can be a deal breaker.
yes! times have changed and people aren't willing to put the effort in their relationships they should.... they would rather talk to the person who is ';putting out';
then don't get too hard to get. be yourself, make a good impression that makes him keeps chasing you. but if he went away and finds an easier girl, then maybe he's just trying to get back at you by making you jealous or he's just not for you. you wouldn't wanna be called easy would you?How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?
i think that in the very very beginning of a relationship there may be some 'playing' hard to get, but, after a while...yep, it is a dealbreaker when it goes on seemingly endlessly. it can be a deal breaker.
yes! times have changed and people aren't willing to put the effort in their relationships they should.... they would rather talk to the person who is ';putting out';
How to deal with a guy who wants to play hard to get?
i dont want to be that girl that chases a guy. i want a guy to take an effort to persue me...How to deal with a guy who wants to play hard to get?
Perhaps he just doesn't see things the way you do? Have you considered that? Without talking to him and understanding his intentions, you will never know and clearly you WANT to know! lol, so perhaps you want it more than him?How to deal with a guy who wants to play hard to get?
i dont think u should waste your time and try to waste ur time to chase one fish one fish out of the big sea i think u should just try to be friends first and if he makes you laugh a lot that will b a really good sign
Screw guys who are cocky like that.
I'd rather date someone who isn't all into himself and thinks he's too good for you.
They will chase after you someday! Just watch, :)
Perhaps he just doesn't see things the way you do? Have you considered that? Without talking to him and understanding his intentions, you will never know and clearly you WANT to know! lol, so perhaps you want it more than him?How to deal with a guy who wants to play hard to get?
i dont think u should waste your time and try to waste ur time to chase one fish one fish out of the big sea i think u should just try to be friends first and if he makes you laugh a lot that will b a really good sign
Screw guys who are cocky like that.
I'd rather date someone who isn't all into himself and thinks he's too good for you.
They will chase after you someday! Just watch, :)
Guys: How do you like it better? When a girl plays hard to get or when she's always available?
Let's say you were attracted to a girl, and she is obviously interested in you too. Which type of personality are you more likely to keep pursuing?
Girl #1. The girl who is difficult to get in touch with/make plans with.
Girl #2. The girl who is available almost all of the time and you are able to be with her whenever you please.
Would you try harder with girl #1? Would girl #2's availability be a complete turn off, making you not try as hard with her?Guys: How do you like it better? When a girl plays hard to get or when she's always available?
Second one will do for me. Who has the time to go after a hard to get girl.Guys: How do you like it better? When a girl plays hard to get or when she's always available?
Actually, I personally prefer someone who is available, but hard to get in a sense. Like it would take a lot to approach her heart but it'd won't be as hard to make a conversation or anything like that.
My point is that, if a girl is too difficult, some people just give up because it's too tough and even talking isn't an easy task. Also, toughly independent mentally is really an attractive trait, not saying that you can't break down to someone but like you have to understand and be able to handle stuff.
When you're easy to approach, the conversations flow and it's easier to feel attached to each other. You get to actually know each other.
So, my answer is a mixture of 1 %26amp; 2.
I'm sorry, it might not have been an answer you've wanted. But hopefully you'll get one you want from someone else.
I am not good with girls, but I still think that there needs to be a little #1 and #2. I like #1 because it shows that a girl is independent. What I don't like is that if she is interested in a guy, don't pretend you are not, give some hints. I like #2 because if a GUY is interested in a girl he can talk to the girl more naturally, where as if you were reserved it makes it hard for guys to be comfortable. What I don't like about #2 is that you are too available and it might drop some hints that you might be a slut. Or you are too clingy. So really you need to have some of #1 and some of #2.
I'm dating girl #1... I gotta say, her unavailability is really off putting.. The only reason I stay is because of her amazing personality. But I would much rather have a girl with her personality (and incredible good looks) who is actually available more often... It's annoying not being able to spend time with her, and it makes me feel like we don't have enough chances to connect and grow stronger.
So, to make it clear, it's her personality that keeps me, not her hard to get in touch of lifestyle.
I would prefer girl #2.
the girl that I would like to date would have her own life but is not always available, but no so busy she doesn't have time
the two examples that you have specified are at extremes. I would go for someone in the middle of these extremes
I find Girl 1 off-putting. if she is doing deliberately, I would dump her quicker than you can delete phone numbers. Girl 2 would last longer, but I wouldn't find her all that attractive.
Hope this helps
well the girl who plays hard probably want u to pay more attention to. If you really likes you she's gonna probably come back to you and try get more attention.
girl 2 is probably easy to have a nice time with.
If i was a guy i'd be too annoyed with girl 1.
but unless you love girl 1 enough u'd probably keep persuing.
pick the girl who's just really obviously easy to talk to if you dont choose ur gonna loose them both. YOu gotta choose one.
I would prefer in the middle.
Guys would think girl #1 is a ***** who doesn't give anyone a damn, including him.
Guys would think girl #2 has a boring life.
always available.
The easy ones
available
I like easy going girls without any fuss.
A bit in between. You dont want her being like a slut, but if shes too impossible i give up.
a girl who is available, but dont leave yourself wide open cus u will get hurt
2 :D
as long as she isn't a slut, #2
I'd choose 2.free anti virus bridge loan
Girl #1. The girl who is difficult to get in touch with/make plans with.
Girl #2. The girl who is available almost all of the time and you are able to be with her whenever you please.
Would you try harder with girl #1? Would girl #2's availability be a complete turn off, making you not try as hard with her?Guys: How do you like it better? When a girl plays hard to get or when she's always available?
Second one will do for me. Who has the time to go after a hard to get girl.Guys: How do you like it better? When a girl plays hard to get or when she's always available?
Actually, I personally prefer someone who is available, but hard to get in a sense. Like it would take a lot to approach her heart but it'd won't be as hard to make a conversation or anything like that.
My point is that, if a girl is too difficult, some people just give up because it's too tough and even talking isn't an easy task. Also, toughly independent mentally is really an attractive trait, not saying that you can't break down to someone but like you have to understand and be able to handle stuff.
When you're easy to approach, the conversations flow and it's easier to feel attached to each other. You get to actually know each other.
So, my answer is a mixture of 1 %26amp; 2.
I'm sorry, it might not have been an answer you've wanted. But hopefully you'll get one you want from someone else.
I am not good with girls, but I still think that there needs to be a little #1 and #2. I like #1 because it shows that a girl is independent. What I don't like is that if she is interested in a guy, don't pretend you are not, give some hints. I like #2 because if a GUY is interested in a girl he can talk to the girl more naturally, where as if you were reserved it makes it hard for guys to be comfortable. What I don't like about #2 is that you are too available and it might drop some hints that you might be a slut. Or you are too clingy. So really you need to have some of #1 and some of #2.
I'm dating girl #1... I gotta say, her unavailability is really off putting.. The only reason I stay is because of her amazing personality. But I would much rather have a girl with her personality (and incredible good looks) who is actually available more often... It's annoying not being able to spend time with her, and it makes me feel like we don't have enough chances to connect and grow stronger.
So, to make it clear, it's her personality that keeps me, not her hard to get in touch of lifestyle.
I would prefer girl #2.
the girl that I would like to date would have her own life but is not always available, but no so busy she doesn't have time
the two examples that you have specified are at extremes. I would go for someone in the middle of these extremes
I find Girl 1 off-putting. if she is doing deliberately, I would dump her quicker than you can delete phone numbers. Girl 2 would last longer, but I wouldn't find her all that attractive.
Hope this helps
well the girl who plays hard probably want u to pay more attention to. If you really likes you she's gonna probably come back to you and try get more attention.
girl 2 is probably easy to have a nice time with.
If i was a guy i'd be too annoyed with girl 1.
but unless you love girl 1 enough u'd probably keep persuing.
pick the girl who's just really obviously easy to talk to if you dont choose ur gonna loose them both. YOu gotta choose one.
I would prefer in the middle.
Guys would think girl #1 is a ***** who doesn't give anyone a damn, including him.
Guys would think girl #2 has a boring life.
always available.
The easy ones
available
I like easy going girls without any fuss.
A bit in between. You dont want her being like a slut, but if shes too impossible i give up.
a girl who is available, but dont leave yourself wide open cus u will get hurt
2 :D
as long as she isn't a slut, #2
I'd choose 2.
How can I play hard to get with him?
There is this guy I'm interested in, and I've been way too easy so far. So now I want to play hard to get because this is the way you get guys.. Okay, we're on msn. What do I say!? (REMEMBER MSN CHAT)How can I play hard to get with him?
I usually give up on girls who play hard to get.How can I play hard to get with him?
WHY DO THIS TO YOURSELF? Why waste the precious time in your life by playing hard to get? I don't advocate throwing yourself helplessly at his feet but if you like the guy, just go out with him and start living happily ever after. For pete's sake, most guys hate playing games and your taking a chance that one, he'll like the game and two, that he even know's how to play games. If you like him, you don't have to verbally tell him that but just enjoy what you've already got. DON'T play games, it sucks and it just waste your time and his.
Hard to get is a hard game to play.. and although it sounds absolutly ridiculous, it does get guys. The main thing you should remember is acting like you don't need him, don't ask him for his number, don't sit on msn all night talking to him, because it sounds like you don't have a life.
If you like the guy why are you messin with him? Jesus dont play hard to get just be yourself, hes not gonna know what the hell is goin on and probably just leave you to it. He doesnt see it as hard to get he sees it as you're being hard, or cold or nasty or just a *****.
Why do you want to play mind games with someone?
Tell him no a lot
don't talk as long
get off and tell him your meeting a friend in 10 minutes.
If its late at Night tell him you have got to go a friend is calling u in 3 minutes.
Always act as tho some one else wants u.
that's playing hard to get.
Let him initiate d conversation;
don't chat 4 too long,i mean wind up d chat within 10 minutes.
But b careful don't play too hard to get or else dat guy will think u r nt interested %26amp; he might move on...
Changing your pace will throw him off.
Wait until you sense the proverbial ball is in your court and THEN start doing what you need to do.
take a while to answer
and if he asks who you like
try to use com backs!
i dno i havent dealn with this
I usually give up on girls who play hard to get.How can I play hard to get with him?
WHY DO THIS TO YOURSELF? Why waste the precious time in your life by playing hard to get? I don't advocate throwing yourself helplessly at his feet but if you like the guy, just go out with him and start living happily ever after. For pete's sake, most guys hate playing games and your taking a chance that one, he'll like the game and two, that he even know's how to play games. If you like him, you don't have to verbally tell him that but just enjoy what you've already got. DON'T play games, it sucks and it just waste your time and his.
Hard to get is a hard game to play.. and although it sounds absolutly ridiculous, it does get guys. The main thing you should remember is acting like you don't need him, don't ask him for his number, don't sit on msn all night talking to him, because it sounds like you don't have a life.
If you like the guy why are you messin with him? Jesus dont play hard to get just be yourself, hes not gonna know what the hell is goin on and probably just leave you to it. He doesnt see it as hard to get he sees it as you're being hard, or cold or nasty or just a *****.
Why do you want to play mind games with someone?
Tell him no a lot
don't talk as long
get off and tell him your meeting a friend in 10 minutes.
If its late at Night tell him you have got to go a friend is calling u in 3 minutes.
Always act as tho some one else wants u.
that's playing hard to get.
Let him initiate d conversation;
don't chat 4 too long,i mean wind up d chat within 10 minutes.
But b careful don't play too hard to get or else dat guy will think u r nt interested %26amp; he might move on...
Changing your pace will throw him off.
Wait until you sense the proverbial ball is in your court and THEN start doing what you need to do.
take a while to answer
and if he asks who you like
try to use com backs!
i dno i havent dealn with this
I dont like him as much as he likes me? but i still like him and maybe want to date?
so i like this guy, and he really really likes me. but i dont like him as much as he likes me. we have only hung out twice, but we talked on myspace for awhile and i finally met him. he always tells me how much he likes me and hes falling for me faster than i am for him. i guess i kind of like it when guys play hard to get? and with him it was just so easy and he flat out told me how much he liked me. i do think i want to date this guy, but it seems a little weird because hes likes me sooooo much more than i like him right now. and i havent really gotten the chance to hangout with him enough and fall for him like he has fallen for me. im confused by my feelings, and i just wanna know what should i do, is this normal for me to feel this way or what?I dont like him as much as he likes me? but i still like him and maybe want to date?
dont throw a good thing away.
people spend forver finding someone crazy about them.
id date him. in time youll like him as much as he likes you.
why would you let him pass you by?
it is normal to feel that way.
thats exactly how it was with my ex bf. he liked me a sh*t load
more than i liked him.. i mean a lot more.. like he would call daily %26amp;
sometimes i wouldnt answer just to not answer.. i never took him seriously b4 we went out %26amp; i talked to other guys while we got to know eachother but i took a chance on him %26amp; i ended up falling im love with him.. he broke up with me.. tables turn.
just follow your heart
hope i helpedI dont like him as much as he likes me? but i still like him and maybe want to date?
If you think you might like him, go out...tell him you need to take it slow though. If he starts to get stalkerish at all- drop him right away! I've dated guys that started coming on really strong right away and they got really possesive and controling. Just beware. He could just be a nice guy that is open with his feelings. Do what you feel is right.
I'm in a similar situation right now and all i can say is if you like him back you should see where it goes just make sure he ain't too clingy, and another thing its better to be liked alot then for a guy not to show you how he really feels in my book
give him a chance. you might see the other side of him.
who knows, you might get to know him very well and even like him more than you know.
just give him a chance.
Anyone you meet on line, please casual date first in a group of friends. See if he is true or not. You may end up liking him more than right now. But, be careful first.
dont throw a good thing away.
people spend forver finding someone crazy about them.
id date him. in time youll like him as much as he likes you.
why would you let him pass you by?
it is normal to feel that way.
thats exactly how it was with my ex bf. he liked me a sh*t load
more than i liked him.. i mean a lot more.. like he would call daily %26amp;
sometimes i wouldnt answer just to not answer.. i never took him seriously b4 we went out %26amp; i talked to other guys while we got to know eachother but i took a chance on him %26amp; i ended up falling im love with him.. he broke up with me.. tables turn.
just follow your heart
hope i helpedI dont like him as much as he likes me? but i still like him and maybe want to date?
If you think you might like him, go out...tell him you need to take it slow though. If he starts to get stalkerish at all- drop him right away! I've dated guys that started coming on really strong right away and they got really possesive and controling. Just beware. He could just be a nice guy that is open with his feelings. Do what you feel is right.
I'm in a similar situation right now and all i can say is if you like him back you should see where it goes just make sure he ain't too clingy, and another thing its better to be liked alot then for a guy not to show you how he really feels in my book
give him a chance. you might see the other side of him.
who knows, you might get to know him very well and even like him more than you know.
just give him a chance.
Anyone you meet on line, please casual date first in a group of friends. See if he is true or not. You may end up liking him more than right now. But, be careful first.
How do i play it hard to get with a guy?
I met a guy and i have been given the advise to play it hard to get with him and i don't know how to do it and what to say in situations. Any help and any suggestions. thanksHow do i play it hard to get with a guy?
DONT play hard to get it's annoying when girls do that i just ignore them as i deem the behaviour to be rude regardless of weather it is hard to get or not.How do i play it hard to get with a guy?
It's best not to play games in relationships and ';playing hard to get'; is a game. If you really like the guy just let him know it.
DONT play hard to get it's annoying when girls do that i just ignore them as i deem the behaviour to be rude regardless of weather it is hard to get or not.How do i play it hard to get with a guy?
It's best not to play games in relationships and ';playing hard to get'; is a game. If you really like the guy just let him know it.
Confused:S?
This guy was flirting with me yesterday, and i really like him.
But now hes not talking to me.
I know i cant make him fancy me or whatever, but how can i get him to notice me more?
her hasnt replied to my bebo message, and he was on a while ago. Do guys play hard to get too?
I asked a question about him yesterday, and most people thought he liked me.
What should i do??
xoxConfused:S?
Well it depends .. some guys play hard to get but some of us dont. i wish i could be of more help but im new to most of this myself.
good luck .. everything will work out =)free anti virus bridge loan
But now hes not talking to me.
I know i cant make him fancy me or whatever, but how can i get him to notice me more?
her hasnt replied to my bebo message, and he was on a while ago. Do guys play hard to get too?
I asked a question about him yesterday, and most people thought he liked me.
What should i do??
xoxConfused:S?
Well it depends .. some guys play hard to get but some of us dont. i wish i could be of more help but im new to most of this myself.
good luck .. everything will work out =)
How do you play hard to get with guy?
what should i do,say...?How do you play hard to get with guy?
do not seem so eager to answer his questions and give short answers
do not seem so eager to answer his questions and give short answers
How to play hard to get with a flirty girl?
I'm trying to play hard to get with this girl in my class. What steps should I use to play hard to get but still show that I'm interested?
if you can help that's awesome =| , I really like her but i dont want her to know that yet i want her to see I'm not as easy as most guys. thanksHow to play hard to get with a flirty girl?
Don't play games, just be chillHow to play hard to get with a flirty girl?
Ignore her.
ahh dont do that lol
u might lose her =P!
if you can help that's awesome =| , I really like her but i dont want her to know that yet i want her to see I'm not as easy as most guys. thanksHow to play hard to get with a flirty girl?
Don't play games, just be chillHow to play hard to get with a flirty girl?
Ignore her.
ahh dont do that lol
u might lose her =P!
EX BOYFRIEND PROBLEM PLEASE HELP- KINDA LONG SO IF YOU WANT TO READ PLEASE HELP ME. NO ONE ANSWERED LAST TIME?
my problem- my ex and i of 10 months broke up about 3 months ago. we always kept in contact after the break up- with fights, regular talking, or meeting up to talk about our problems with ';us';. we broke up because of alot of things that is now in my past..kinda ( him talking to his ex ) i really was hurt by this and its so hard to get over the fact that i heard he cheated on me even though he assures me its not true. they are friends and the thought of that makes me nasueas. He is a great guy on the inside, and he shows that to me all the time. We were and i think still are in love, but for me its hard to be that fun bubbly person i was when i was with him because i tend to pick stupid fights because the truth is im not fully recovered from the thought of him and the other girl, just them being friends makes me upset. He always puts her down and says shes nothing to him. we are now talking daily again like we used to, we have hung out now several times alone, and we talk on the phone at night for hours, which idk if thats a bad idea. I feel like in his head he has the best of both worlds, he has a girl he can talk to and feel comforted by and hang out and kiss when he feels, and then his other life which is hang out with his new group of friends and not have to feel like he needs to invite me or have strings attached cause he has no gf now.
i love him still, but i feel like our realtionship is so boring now. i cant say the things i used to as much bc were not dating, and i tell myself i am not going to just wait for him but to be honest without him i was miserable, i was so depressed and was a wreck, my mood was horrible 24/7. still i feel like i give him problems when i shouldnt and it ends in us in little tiffs with one another which bothers me as well because thats just hurting ';us'; i really want to know if he wil eventually ask me back out, because like i said i cant do this forever.
were 17, and have known each other for a while. we are very close, and tell each other basically everything, but when were apart i feel if i tell him i want more then this, it will push him further away because maybe he doesnt want the commitment.
he is not a doushe bag to me, he is very sweet,caring,chamring, and i really didnt expect him to hurt me like he did, but he seems to be getting better. I am not going to defend him too much, but i dont want the image in your heads to be he is a as*hole and get rid of him
leaving him right now is not an opiton really because i think it would be too hard to let go right now. were on good terms at the moment and it would be bad if i said its over esp cause i feel like he would be mad and do something with that girl ( just because i ended it)
my question is how do i get out of my ';black hole'; of being mean and causing fights with him because i cant get over the past compleltly, he is always ressuring me he doesnt talk to her much anymore, but its like word vomit, i always am like '; so hows you and ___';
also another question is do you think he will ever get around to asking me back out, or do you think he is too involved in his friends and other things to want a commitment, i know guys hate it so what do you suggest i do? talk to other guys? play hard to get? help meEX BOYFRIEND PROBLEM PLEASE HELP- KINDA LONG SO IF YOU WANT TO READ PLEASE HELP ME. NO ONE ANSWERED LAST TIME?
OKAY ! ( lot of reading might I say )
First off didnt act hard to get. That just makes the guy feel like you are not worth fighting for and that you look ridiculous. Basically you end up looking stupid at the end, when you thought that it was really working.
Act like yourself all the time, but just hold up on all the questions with the whole girl thing. JUST LET IT GOOOOO ! I know that it might be hard. but just be a women and mature about it and do it. Just tell him that you didnt care if he DID or DID NOT do anything with that girl. He wont believe you for the moment but he will start to notice it.
Be the Girl that you want to be deep down inside, and the girl That he would like to see in you. If you find your self asking him how he is with that girl, PLEASE bite your tongue or do something. Because then you will mes up everything ! You never know he just might fall back in love with you !
Hope it helps!EX BOYFRIEND PROBLEM PLEASE HELP- KINDA LONG SO IF YOU WANT TO READ PLEASE HELP ME. NO ONE ANSWERED LAST TIME?
i think u should work on getting over him... i know there has to be other guys around that you have been interested in or attracted too and thought well if i wasn't dating so n so then id probably talk to him. we all do it.. so just start talking, experience what other kinds of guys are in the world. and if your ex finds out about it then maybe he will get jealous and come back around. but for now.. your single, have fun with it. hang out with your girls and have some fun that always makes me feel better. but keep him close cuz i definatly think he still cares about u alot
i love him still, but i feel like our realtionship is so boring now. i cant say the things i used to as much bc were not dating, and i tell myself i am not going to just wait for him but to be honest without him i was miserable, i was so depressed and was a wreck, my mood was horrible 24/7. still i feel like i give him problems when i shouldnt and it ends in us in little tiffs with one another which bothers me as well because thats just hurting ';us'; i really want to know if he wil eventually ask me back out, because like i said i cant do this forever.
were 17, and have known each other for a while. we are very close, and tell each other basically everything, but when were apart i feel if i tell him i want more then this, it will push him further away because maybe he doesnt want the commitment.
he is not a doushe bag to me, he is very sweet,caring,chamring, and i really didnt expect him to hurt me like he did, but he seems to be getting better. I am not going to defend him too much, but i dont want the image in your heads to be he is a as*hole and get rid of him
leaving him right now is not an opiton really because i think it would be too hard to let go right now. were on good terms at the moment and it would be bad if i said its over esp cause i feel like he would be mad and do something with that girl ( just because i ended it)
my question is how do i get out of my ';black hole'; of being mean and causing fights with him because i cant get over the past compleltly, he is always ressuring me he doesnt talk to her much anymore, but its like word vomit, i always am like '; so hows you and ___';
also another question is do you think he will ever get around to asking me back out, or do you think he is too involved in his friends and other things to want a commitment, i know guys hate it so what do you suggest i do? talk to other guys? play hard to get? help meEX BOYFRIEND PROBLEM PLEASE HELP- KINDA LONG SO IF YOU WANT TO READ PLEASE HELP ME. NO ONE ANSWERED LAST TIME?
OKAY ! ( lot of reading might I say )
First off didnt act hard to get. That just makes the guy feel like you are not worth fighting for and that you look ridiculous. Basically you end up looking stupid at the end, when you thought that it was really working.
Act like yourself all the time, but just hold up on all the questions with the whole girl thing. JUST LET IT GOOOOO ! I know that it might be hard. but just be a women and mature about it and do it. Just tell him that you didnt care if he DID or DID NOT do anything with that girl. He wont believe you for the moment but he will start to notice it.
Be the Girl that you want to be deep down inside, and the girl That he would like to see in you. If you find your self asking him how he is with that girl, PLEASE bite your tongue or do something. Because then you will mes up everything ! You never know he just might fall back in love with you !
Hope it helps!EX BOYFRIEND PROBLEM PLEASE HELP- KINDA LONG SO IF YOU WANT TO READ PLEASE HELP ME. NO ONE ANSWERED LAST TIME?
i think u should work on getting over him... i know there has to be other guys around that you have been interested in or attracted too and thought well if i wasn't dating so n so then id probably talk to him. we all do it.. so just start talking, experience what other kinds of guys are in the world. and if your ex finds out about it then maybe he will get jealous and come back around. but for now.. your single, have fun with it. hang out with your girls and have some fun that always makes me feel better. but keep him close cuz i definatly think he still cares about u alot
How to play hard to get?
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how do you play hard to get with a guy?
and guys what do you like the most that girls do when they flirt with you over IM?How to play hard to get?
why play hard to get??? if you want him/her, then tell and take them...
if you play, they'll find someone else...How to play hard to get?
that's a simple yet complicated game in terms of love and too good for a man if he survive and to a woman's desire but too bad for a man if he fails and to a woman, if ever she fall in luv with that partcular man and the man leaves her.alone.........
I more just tease a lot. My boyfriend and I just poke fun at each other constantly.
Playing hard to get - gets annoying. I tried that method once and it had the opposite effect. He ended up getting pushed far away.
This time around, I kept it real. I was myself, I teased him, and flirted with eye contact, arm touching, all that junk.
It works nicer and I feel like I'm being truer to myself.
Dress like a hobo, don't bathe or brush your teeth...that will make you hard to stand, let alone GET. Don't play games, shet, or get off the pot.
And, I personally like a woman to smile at me and/or send me a drink across a room and then follow it up with a ';hello!'; and touch me in some form or fashion...that takes all the question of whther she's interested away.
Don't play hard to get, guy's find it way more attractive when a woman is totally straight forward and lets them know what she wants. If you play hard to get, you are going to be very disappointed with the results. That is a fact. Good luck.
';how do you play hard to get with a guy?';
Imply that you're going to put out, but never do.
how do you play hard to get with a guy?
and guys what do you like the most that girls do when they flirt with you over IM?How to play hard to get?
why play hard to get??? if you want him/her, then tell and take them...
if you play, they'll find someone else...How to play hard to get?
that's a simple yet complicated game in terms of love and too good for a man if he survive and to a woman's desire but too bad for a man if he fails and to a woman, if ever she fall in luv with that partcular man and the man leaves her.alone.........
I more just tease a lot. My boyfriend and I just poke fun at each other constantly.
Playing hard to get - gets annoying. I tried that method once and it had the opposite effect. He ended up getting pushed far away.
This time around, I kept it real. I was myself, I teased him, and flirted with eye contact, arm touching, all that junk.
It works nicer and I feel like I'm being truer to myself.
Dress like a hobo, don't bathe or brush your teeth...that will make you hard to stand, let alone GET. Don't play games, shet, or get off the pot.
And, I personally like a woman to smile at me and/or send me a drink across a room and then follow it up with a ';hello!'; and touch me in some form or fashion...that takes all the question of whther she's interested away.
Don't play hard to get, guy's find it way more attractive when a woman is totally straight forward and lets them know what she wants. If you play hard to get, you are going to be very disappointed with the results. That is a fact. Good luck.
';how do you play hard to get with a guy?';
Imply that you're going to put out, but never do.
How should I react to a guy whos playing hard to get w/ me?
Okay I really like this guy he says he likes me too but now he's playing hard to get. He'll get my attention then flirt with other girls. When he does he'll literally stare into my eyes from across the room. He said to me once ';We're not going out yet'; I already played hard to get with him and got him to like me. So now how do I act around him? I'm not gonna just dump him because I really like him like....ALOT!!!!!How should I react to a guy whos playing hard to get w/ me?
Would just show total disinterest in him.He'll reactHow should I react to a guy whos playing hard to get w/ me?
play the game guys always want what they can't have
Would just show total disinterest in him.He'll reactHow should I react to a guy whos playing hard to get w/ me?
play the game guys always want what they can't have
How to get a guy that is playing hard to get?
ugh well i like this guy but hes been talking to my friends and telling them hes playing hard to get so how is a 14 year old gonna get a guy that she really likes..gggrrrr whoever came up with hard to get is stupid.well please answer my questionHow to get a guy that is playing hard to get?
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He doesn't want to be caught
Why girls want guys to chase them?
Why they want them to chase them? attention? reason?
Why they play hard to get with guys? How long will stop?
10 points if you give me a best answer, thanks!Why girls want guys to chase them?
At the heart of every woman is the desire to be pursued. They long to be captivating and uncommonly beautiful. When no one calls or chases them it sends a message to their inner most being which says, ';You're not worth the time or effort. You're not captivating and you're not worth capturing.';
But when someone seeks them it makes them feel like being on top of cloud nine. Sometimes they even dream of more than one pursuer.
Boys and young men are always asking themselves, ';Do I have what it takes?'; While girls and young ladies are always asking, ';Am I beautiful?';Why girls want guys to chase them?
Girls play hard to get with guys to see how much they are wanted. If a guy approaches you and you say no and they keep on chasing you then obviously it is something very special about you that they want. Most of the time guys will use girls to get in their pants so they try to test them to see if they are worthy enough. That's how me and my boyfriend got together. I played hard to get for a long time though. I played hard to get for a year and now we have been together for 8 months and planning on getting married when i get out of school so all you have to do is play along and if she gets real mad then you know that she is not really playing hard to get...she is serious.
Girls love to be chased by guys because they want to feel that somebody WANTS them. That's why they like to ';play hard to get';. Everybody always wants attention, maybe a lot or not so much. But girls will most likely try to be mysterious toward guys to keep them hanging on or chase them. Smart girls won't keep a guy chasing her for awhile because she knows that the guy will stop. Girls will stop being mysterious when she knows if the guy likes her a lot. Hope this helps. :)
because guys are supposed to be men- they're suppose to be the alpha male and be the ones to get what they want. girls want guys who are not afraid to go after what they want. playing hard to get is a way to have fun and to see how much you like them to continue to chase them. it will stop once you've proven to her that you like her.
i do this all the time :')
and for one reason to annoy them you boys as soon as you like someone you want them but if the girl doesnt seem to want you it makes you like her even more, which makes girls actully want you back
like if you said hey to me id b like what ? and walk away and then if you turn and walk away yer not much of a man but if you come back stand in front of me and say i like you and im gonna keep talking to you with that stick your tounge out and walk away it turns it completey around and were the ones pinning for you :L
I've only played hard to get once- and it was because i didn't know the guy very well and he seemed like a player so i pretended like i didn't like him very much to see if he would keep trying to get with me and see if he truly liked me or if i was just another girl for him to play.
now, y do guys do that to girls?
the reason for chasing is because it makes us feel like they are really into us and not just into getting in our pants. the more attention they show us, the more flattered we are and the more convinced we become that they really like us and not what they can get from us.
the reason for playing hard to get is so the guy doesn't think she's desperate or a slut.
how long we play the game depends on the individual. some girls are harder to convince than others that you really like them.
they want to know that the guys are making the effort to be with them... if they are working hard to be with them they most likely arent putting the effort in elsewhere with other chicks... not to mention, the effort guys put into the chase shows how dependable they can be in the future and if they really want her bad enough or not.
the heart of a woman was made to be pursued. this may drive guys crazy, but honestly, guys need to get in touch with their hearts anyways, so look at it as a dose of much needed medicine that can eventually get you where you need to be. needing to be pursued and valued and made to feel worthy is different than playing games, and some women dont know how to ask a man to do this without being manipulative and playing games, so find a quality girl who is worth the chase and then enjoy the ride,she'll make it worth your while :-)
Brother-
Because:-
They last long ;-) so they can afford to run more than we can.
Good at football now play this new ball game if you can %26amp; let the coach decide if you are the best player. Play hard ! to Win big!
You have dreams %26amp; you chase them, ain't that girl in your dreams so why this discrimination towards her- chase her man.
Besides, we men articulate girls more than they deserve to be %26amp; in the process they become delicate to handle %26amp; then you become wary of breaking them %26amp; finally you give up handling them fearing you are going to break them. However, if can't handle your possessions well what else you could be good at? Ask yourself !
My 10 points mate !!!!!???? now don't back off lol!
the reason we like to be chased is to make sure there is no game plaaying also to know that we are worth the wait you know because a good guy will chase the girl and someone who just wants to hit it is not going to do all the chasing when they only want one thing so basically its to feel worth something and knowing that you will take the time to chase after us just to talk to us.
If a girl acts like that, don't even try. She isn't worth it.
There are much more balanced, reasonable women out there who won't waste your time as these girls do. These fools will never stop playing silly mind and power games with you - so just don't get involved.
It's a sick power game tied to their need for status and dominance/acceptance by their catty little girlfriends. Raising a daughter has been appalling in that these sorts of traits are hardwired into our females and manifest so young.
Alot of times girls want to be chased to make them feel like they are wanted. It does something for some girls egos to have a guy constantly contact them however a confident girl don't necessarily need this.
Attention ! ! !
I would only do that because I'm nervous the guy doesn't like me or I want to make sure the guy likes me and he's ';manly'; to ask me out or whatever himself...
it will never stop man bc thats the why that they now they got the power when there able to do watever they want to u so drop it and show them that its watever
to know we are worth it to you
Why they play hard to get with guys? How long will stop?
10 points if you give me a best answer, thanks!Why girls want guys to chase them?
At the heart of every woman is the desire to be pursued. They long to be captivating and uncommonly beautiful. When no one calls or chases them it sends a message to their inner most being which says, ';You're not worth the time or effort. You're not captivating and you're not worth capturing.';
But when someone seeks them it makes them feel like being on top of cloud nine. Sometimes they even dream of more than one pursuer.
Boys and young men are always asking themselves, ';Do I have what it takes?'; While girls and young ladies are always asking, ';Am I beautiful?';Why girls want guys to chase them?
Girls play hard to get with guys to see how much they are wanted. If a guy approaches you and you say no and they keep on chasing you then obviously it is something very special about you that they want. Most of the time guys will use girls to get in their pants so they try to test them to see if they are worthy enough. That's how me and my boyfriend got together. I played hard to get for a long time though. I played hard to get for a year and now we have been together for 8 months and planning on getting married when i get out of school so all you have to do is play along and if she gets real mad then you know that she is not really playing hard to get...she is serious.
Girls love to be chased by guys because they want to feel that somebody WANTS them. That's why they like to ';play hard to get';. Everybody always wants attention, maybe a lot or not so much. But girls will most likely try to be mysterious toward guys to keep them hanging on or chase them. Smart girls won't keep a guy chasing her for awhile because she knows that the guy will stop. Girls will stop being mysterious when she knows if the guy likes her a lot. Hope this helps. :)
because guys are supposed to be men- they're suppose to be the alpha male and be the ones to get what they want. girls want guys who are not afraid to go after what they want. playing hard to get is a way to have fun and to see how much you like them to continue to chase them. it will stop once you've proven to her that you like her.
i do this all the time :')
and for one reason to annoy them you boys as soon as you like someone you want them but if the girl doesnt seem to want you it makes you like her even more, which makes girls actully want you back
like if you said hey to me id b like what ? and walk away and then if you turn and walk away yer not much of a man but if you come back stand in front of me and say i like you and im gonna keep talking to you with that stick your tounge out and walk away it turns it completey around and were the ones pinning for you :L
I've only played hard to get once- and it was because i didn't know the guy very well and he seemed like a player so i pretended like i didn't like him very much to see if he would keep trying to get with me and see if he truly liked me or if i was just another girl for him to play.
now, y do guys do that to girls?
the reason for chasing is because it makes us feel like they are really into us and not just into getting in our pants. the more attention they show us, the more flattered we are and the more convinced we become that they really like us and not what they can get from us.
the reason for playing hard to get is so the guy doesn't think she's desperate or a slut.
how long we play the game depends on the individual. some girls are harder to convince than others that you really like them.
they want to know that the guys are making the effort to be with them... if they are working hard to be with them they most likely arent putting the effort in elsewhere with other chicks... not to mention, the effort guys put into the chase shows how dependable they can be in the future and if they really want her bad enough or not.
the heart of a woman was made to be pursued. this may drive guys crazy, but honestly, guys need to get in touch with their hearts anyways, so look at it as a dose of much needed medicine that can eventually get you where you need to be. needing to be pursued and valued and made to feel worthy is different than playing games, and some women dont know how to ask a man to do this without being manipulative and playing games, so find a quality girl who is worth the chase and then enjoy the ride,she'll make it worth your while :-)
Brother-
Because:-
They last long ;-) so they can afford to run more than we can.
Good at football now play this new ball game if you can %26amp; let the coach decide if you are the best player. Play hard ! to Win big!
You have dreams %26amp; you chase them, ain't that girl in your dreams so why this discrimination towards her- chase her man.
Besides, we men articulate girls more than they deserve to be %26amp; in the process they become delicate to handle %26amp; then you become wary of breaking them %26amp; finally you give up handling them fearing you are going to break them. However, if can't handle your possessions well what else you could be good at? Ask yourself !
My 10 points mate !!!!!???? now don't back off lol!
the reason we like to be chased is to make sure there is no game plaaying also to know that we are worth the wait you know because a good guy will chase the girl and someone who just wants to hit it is not going to do all the chasing when they only want one thing so basically its to feel worth something and knowing that you will take the time to chase after us just to talk to us.
If a girl acts like that, don't even try. She isn't worth it.
There are much more balanced, reasonable women out there who won't waste your time as these girls do. These fools will never stop playing silly mind and power games with you - so just don't get involved.
It's a sick power game tied to their need for status and dominance/acceptance by their catty little girlfriends. Raising a daughter has been appalling in that these sorts of traits are hardwired into our females and manifest so young.
Alot of times girls want to be chased to make them feel like they are wanted. It does something for some girls egos to have a guy constantly contact them however a confident girl don't necessarily need this.
Attention ! ! !
I would only do that because I'm nervous the guy doesn't like me or I want to make sure the guy likes me and he's ';manly'; to ask me out or whatever himself...
it will never stop man bc thats the why that they now they got the power when there able to do watever they want to u so drop it and show them that its watever
to know we are worth it to you
Men dont like chasing women that play games, hard to get?
For some reason or other, a lot of women believe that men like “the chase” and so they will deliberately create a chase. What I mean by “creating a chase” is that they will play emotionally unavailable or play hard to get.
What happens most of the time when women do this, however, is that men will stop chasing. The guys who don’t stop chasing are generally the guys who just want to sleep with these women so they can be the guy who wins the chase.
One of the biggest misconceptions women have about men, is that men like the chase and like women who play hard to get. The truth is, though, that the only guys who enjoy women who play hard to get are the guys who just want to “get” them so they can sleep with them.
Now when I talk about women playing at being emotionally unavailable, I am not suggesting that women ought to dump all their feelings on guys the second they meet (because this WILL cause men to run for the hills). So it’s actually true that men DO like the chase . . . but not in a way that women may understand.
The kind of chase we like is what I call “encouragement chase.” Let me give you an example of this when I go and meet a woman. Let’s say I’m dating a woman and I text her. When I do that, I want a text back from her within an hour or two, not two days later.
Two days later to me shows that she is playing games, and I am going to lose interest. It also shows that she is not worthy of me paying attention to her. That’s exactly what I’m thinking in that situation.
For another example, let’s say I call a woman on the phone on Monday and leave her a message telling her I’ve got a great idea for something for us to do that weekend that I want to run by her, and she doesn’t return my call until Thursday. She’s basically telling me she’s not very interested. Not only that, if when she calls back on Thursday she asks me what my weekend idea is, then it means that she is playing games. It also means that she is going to lose me.
If I’m going to go and invest my interest in a woman, I want her to reciprocate an equal interest in me. So taking my ‘great idea for the weekend’ phone call as an example, I want a woman who will call me back that night and say “Really? What is it?” Then I’m going to want to keep things moving along with her, because what I’m doing is laying out a game of cat and mouse — I want to see whether or not you’re going to take the bait, and whether you’re going to to run with it.
If you’re available to me when I ask you out, that’s wonderful. Granted, if in the beginning you’re available to me 24/7 then I’m not going to be interested.
The encouragement chase I want is you being interested in what I’m presenting to you. If you are not expressing interest in what I’m presenting to you in an effort to make me chase you, I’m going to go and find somebody else every time.
So this whole concept of how guys feel about “the chase” is something that most women don’t understand. What you need to remember is very simple.
If a guy calls you, call him back. If a guy texts you, text him back. If a guy comes up with something interesting he wants to do with you, be excited about that.
With all of these, just think about the way that you feel when men do certain things. If a man makes you wait four days after a date to hear from him, you know he’s not interested in you (and that you are no longer interested in him).Men dont like chasing women that play games, hard to get?
This is not a question. However, I do agree to most of what he says.
The chase is fun and I enjoy it, BUT you have to at least let us feel that you are interested. That motivates us for the chase. Otherwise, it would feel no different than if you were completely uninterested or just talking to us out of kindness. And we all know that isnt fun. Don't be easy, but also make sure to keep the tension/vibe in the air that makes us crazy.Men dont like chasing women that play games, hard to get?
This is fantastic! This is exactly the kind of advise I've been seeking lately! Thank you for this
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What happens most of the time when women do this, however, is that men will stop chasing. The guys who don’t stop chasing are generally the guys who just want to sleep with these women so they can be the guy who wins the chase.
One of the biggest misconceptions women have about men, is that men like the chase and like women who play hard to get. The truth is, though, that the only guys who enjoy women who play hard to get are the guys who just want to “get” them so they can sleep with them.
Now when I talk about women playing at being emotionally unavailable, I am not suggesting that women ought to dump all their feelings on guys the second they meet (because this WILL cause men to run for the hills). So it’s actually true that men DO like the chase . . . but not in a way that women may understand.
The kind of chase we like is what I call “encouragement chase.” Let me give you an example of this when I go and meet a woman. Let’s say I’m dating a woman and I text her. When I do that, I want a text back from her within an hour or two, not two days later.
Two days later to me shows that she is playing games, and I am going to lose interest. It also shows that she is not worthy of me paying attention to her. That’s exactly what I’m thinking in that situation.
For another example, let’s say I call a woman on the phone on Monday and leave her a message telling her I’ve got a great idea for something for us to do that weekend that I want to run by her, and she doesn’t return my call until Thursday. She’s basically telling me she’s not very interested. Not only that, if when she calls back on Thursday she asks me what my weekend idea is, then it means that she is playing games. It also means that she is going to lose me.
If I’m going to go and invest my interest in a woman, I want her to reciprocate an equal interest in me. So taking my ‘great idea for the weekend’ phone call as an example, I want a woman who will call me back that night and say “Really? What is it?” Then I’m going to want to keep things moving along with her, because what I’m doing is laying out a game of cat and mouse — I want to see whether or not you’re going to take the bait, and whether you’re going to to run with it.
If you’re available to me when I ask you out, that’s wonderful. Granted, if in the beginning you’re available to me 24/7 then I’m not going to be interested.
The encouragement chase I want is you being interested in what I’m presenting to you. If you are not expressing interest in what I’m presenting to you in an effort to make me chase you, I’m going to go and find somebody else every time.
So this whole concept of how guys feel about “the chase” is something that most women don’t understand. What you need to remember is very simple.
If a guy calls you, call him back. If a guy texts you, text him back. If a guy comes up with something interesting he wants to do with you, be excited about that.
With all of these, just think about the way that you feel when men do certain things. If a man makes you wait four days after a date to hear from him, you know he’s not interested in you (and that you are no longer interested in him).Men dont like chasing women that play games, hard to get?
This is not a question. However, I do agree to most of what he says.
The chase is fun and I enjoy it, BUT you have to at least let us feel that you are interested. That motivates us for the chase. Otherwise, it would feel no different than if you were completely uninterested or just talking to us out of kindness. And we all know that isnt fun. Don't be easy, but also make sure to keep the tension/vibe in the air that makes us crazy.Men dont like chasing women that play games, hard to get?
This is fantastic! This is exactly the kind of advise I've been seeking lately! Thank you for this
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How do I play hard to get?
I have been told i am very pretty, but for some reason i just can't get a boy! This is very frustrating because all boys every want to do is hook-up with me. And im not a easy girl either, i have only had intimate kisses with 3 boys my whole life. One friend said i don't know how to ';play the game'; and i need to play hard to get, but i dont unerstand how. I hate playing games so i usually don't. If someone says call me later, i call. If someone needs my help with something i am a good friend and help them. Yet i am begininng to learn that this is all wrong? im confused, i thought i was supposed to be a good friend... You know, treat people how you want to be treated. Will some please help me! I want to know how to play hard to get and attract guysHow do I play hard to get?
playing hard to get isnt the answer, just be you.. let it happen on its own.. if u push it you will come off as desperateHow do I play hard to get?
i have the exact same problem. If i like someone, i will just tell them, however, guys get all weird when you do this. So the best thing you can do is just try and be nonchalant, and standoffish a little...you don't have to act like you don't even like them, or be rude. Unfortunately, it's hard to NOT play games in the dating world..that's why being in a real relationship is so much better. Guys love a chase...it's just the way it is...especially the younger you are.
Playing hard to get ..
is basically like, when a guy flirts with you .. all you do is look and smile and pretend that it isn't anything, and you don't care ..
For example : A guy flirts with you and smiles at you and tries to talk to you .. and you smile back, but you act like you have nothing towards him, and he's just a friend . Then not giving him attention and things .
Good Luck and Take Care .
Honey, it sounds to me like your pretty much stuck on yourself. Such a goody 2 shoes shouldn't have such misery....tsk tsk tsk.
Pretty much...analyze every reaction that you feel like having towards a guy. Then do the opposite. It seems to drive us crazy for a while at least.
playing hard to get isnt the answer, just be you.. let it happen on its own.. if u push it you will come off as desperateHow do I play hard to get?
i have the exact same problem. If i like someone, i will just tell them, however, guys get all weird when you do this. So the best thing you can do is just try and be nonchalant, and standoffish a little...you don't have to act like you don't even like them, or be rude. Unfortunately, it's hard to NOT play games in the dating world..that's why being in a real relationship is so much better. Guys love a chase...it's just the way it is...especially the younger you are.
Playing hard to get ..
is basically like, when a guy flirts with you .. all you do is look and smile and pretend that it isn't anything, and you don't care ..
For example : A guy flirts with you and smiles at you and tries to talk to you .. and you smile back, but you act like you have nothing towards him, and he's just a friend . Then not giving him attention and things .
Good Luck and Take Care .
Honey, it sounds to me like your pretty much stuck on yourself. Such a goody 2 shoes shouldn't have such misery....tsk tsk tsk.
Pretty much...analyze every reaction that you feel like having towards a guy. Then do the opposite. It seems to drive us crazy for a while at least.
Play hard to get or be a shy girl? what do you prefer....gentelmen and ladies out there?
Hey, all you guys out there my question for y'all is do you think that its better to play hard to get with a guy or act shy with him,
and what would you prefer to do yourself
and gentelmen how do like it when a girl acts who you dont really know
thankyou for answering!!!!Play hard to get or be a shy girl? what do you prefer....gentelmen and ladies out there?
ive found out that playing hard to get pretty much always works,, well better than doing to opposite because guys always want wat they cant hav lOl
good luck =)Play hard to get or be a shy girl? what do you prefer....gentelmen and ladies out there?
Neither - just be yourself the whole act of trying to be someone you're not makes any relationship (even friendship) false and waste of time
I like a man who's hard to get and shy!!! ( hint hint) haha
I am naturally shy at first.
but when I become more comfortable around that person, they soon see my bubbly happy side.
Neither, i just be normal :)
shy @ first, then when he knows you, play hard to get!!
and what would you prefer to do yourself
and gentelmen how do like it when a girl acts who you dont really know
thankyou for answering!!!!Play hard to get or be a shy girl? what do you prefer....gentelmen and ladies out there?
ive found out that playing hard to get pretty much always works,, well better than doing to opposite because guys always want wat they cant hav lOl
good luck =)Play hard to get or be a shy girl? what do you prefer....gentelmen and ladies out there?
Neither - just be yourself the whole act of trying to be someone you're not makes any relationship (even friendship) false and waste of time
I like a man who's hard to get and shy!!! ( hint hint) haha
I am naturally shy at first.
but when I become more comfortable around that person, they soon see my bubbly happy side.
Neither, i just be normal :)
shy @ first, then when he knows you, play hard to get!!
I like a rude guy !! All I need is an advice plz ?
I have this matter and I hope that some one will help me here ,, One of the best friends always send me signals that he likes me and i'm sure that he does ,, the problem is we are close friends for a long time so when i try to flirt with him or anything he makes me feel stupid by laughing on me or saying something rude and because we are bestfriends i can't be mad at him ,,I often try to ask about what he is doing or where have he been and tell him that i miss him and all what i got is a dry answer ,, It hurts !!! it's realy does !!
he is a caring person but he is hard too !! rude sometimes !
if any one knows Alex on Gray's will understand me
I never know that guys play hard to get !!!
plzz I don't know how to deal with him any more !! what should I do ?!I like a rude guy !! All I need is an advice plz ?
hes ur friend and hes rude. so try to move on. thats the only thing u can do.
he is a caring person but he is hard too !! rude sometimes !
if any one knows Alex on Gray's will understand me
I never know that guys play hard to get !!!
plzz I don't know how to deal with him any more !! what should I do ?!I like a rude guy !! All I need is an advice plz ?
hes ur friend and hes rude. so try to move on. thats the only thing u can do.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Do i need counseling if the grass is always greener on the other side?
for example:
-when a guy focuses on me and wants only me, it drives me away...but when he wants someone else, it makes me want him more...
-or when i have a boy friend..i find other boys attractive. but when i DON'T have a boyfriend...i DON'T find other boys attractive..
-and when a guy plays hard to get..it makes me want to chase after him more. but when he is already there...it makes me look else where...
what is wrong with me? i think this is the MAJOR reason why i can't keep a boy friend. how do i stop this?Do i need counseling if the grass is always greener on the other side?
It sounds like a maturity issue and your're not ready for any type of commitment. I wouldn't say you need counseling unless there is something in your past that is making you think the way you do. You just like to have fun and you want what you can't have, it's a challenge.. You'll grow out of it. Good luck!Do i need counseling if the grass is always greener on the other side?
Sounds like it does relate to your mind. Not necessarily the perspective of how you look at a boyfriend. But rather, you can't seem to slow your mind down. Your mind is racing and occupies itself by considering the unknown. While to be complacent with the known (present boyfriend) you mind must be tranquil. I am not a professional psychologist and this is just my opinion. You may be bi-polar and this is why your mind races.
Personally, I think you need to concentrate on making yourself happy before getting into a relationship. You have what most normal people have. Its the Forbidden Fruit Complex (I came up with the name). You want what you can't have. It happens. Work on yourself. Learn to be truly content with yourself and your life before getting with a guy on that level. You don't want to sabotage a potentially fabulous relationship. Just have fun being single. When you meet the person you click with, you'll know. In the mean time, have fun.
P.S.
Trust your instincts. You know yourself the best.
Hm.. maybe you are a man after all.
thats normal...
i guess....
Whooooaaaa, here she comes Watch out boys she'll chew you uppp Whooooaaaa, here she comes Shes a ManEaterrr
your the inspiration for this song
simple find a guy like you, but i'm not really legible for this question cause no matter what the subject is i need counceling.lol,
All you have to do is start at the start by finding someone who likes what you like and dislikes what you dislike and then you will have better luck from that guy.myspace layouts bridge loan
-when a guy focuses on me and wants only me, it drives me away...but when he wants someone else, it makes me want him more...
-or when i have a boy friend..i find other boys attractive. but when i DON'T have a boyfriend...i DON'T find other boys attractive..
-and when a guy plays hard to get..it makes me want to chase after him more. but when he is already there...it makes me look else where...
what is wrong with me? i think this is the MAJOR reason why i can't keep a boy friend. how do i stop this?Do i need counseling if the grass is always greener on the other side?
It sounds like a maturity issue and your're not ready for any type of commitment. I wouldn't say you need counseling unless there is something in your past that is making you think the way you do. You just like to have fun and you want what you can't have, it's a challenge.. You'll grow out of it. Good luck!Do i need counseling if the grass is always greener on the other side?
Sounds like it does relate to your mind. Not necessarily the perspective of how you look at a boyfriend. But rather, you can't seem to slow your mind down. Your mind is racing and occupies itself by considering the unknown. While to be complacent with the known (present boyfriend) you mind must be tranquil. I am not a professional psychologist and this is just my opinion. You may be bi-polar and this is why your mind races.
Personally, I think you need to concentrate on making yourself happy before getting into a relationship. You have what most normal people have. Its the Forbidden Fruit Complex (I came up with the name). You want what you can't have. It happens. Work on yourself. Learn to be truly content with yourself and your life before getting with a guy on that level. You don't want to sabotage a potentially fabulous relationship. Just have fun being single. When you meet the person you click with, you'll know. In the mean time, have fun.
P.S.
Trust your instincts. You know yourself the best.
Hm.. maybe you are a man after all.
thats normal...
i guess....
Whooooaaaa, here she comes Watch out boys she'll chew you uppp Whooooaaaa, here she comes Shes a ManEaterrr
your the inspiration for this song
simple find a guy like you, but i'm not really legible for this question cause no matter what the subject is i need counceling.lol,
All you have to do is start at the start by finding someone who likes what you like and dislikes what you dislike and then you will have better luck from that guy.
Im a guy and my ex wants me back. How do I play hard to get?
I really like her but she broke up with me and now she wants me back. How do i make sure she is for real and how do i play hard to get?Im a guy and my ex wants me back. How do I play hard to get?
try ignoring her but not too much because thats going to show your not interested in her, be arrgoant, when you walking with your acts and see a female friend go up and talk to her because that will make your ex very jelous trust me
try ignoring her but not too much because thats going to show your not interested in her, be arrgoant, when you walking with your acts and see a female friend go up and talk to her because that will make your ex very jelous trust me
This guy is playing hard to get?
how do I get him!
what should I do? should I just give in and say I really want to hang out with him? or should I act like a don't care?
if you play hard to get what is it you want the other person to do?
sometimes we are flirty and hanging out and other times he's kinda mean to me but in a fun way.This guy is playing hard to get?
ok you are11 an he is 12 what the f**kThis guy is playing hard to get?
Guys ain't that emotionally savvy. He's not playing hard-to-get, he's just playing. If you like him, go with the flow. He's dancing, follow his lead.
Are you both grown and out of school --working full time and all?? If so don't sweat it --if not don't bother--finish school have fun and then see where you are--it doesn't sound like he is playing hard to get--just maybe dating one on one isn't what he is into--and that is fine--if you each enjoy hanging out that is fine--don't force the issue--if its right and I believe that people come together if its meant not because its fought for--
just be yourself .. if he is really into you, you don't even have to do a thing .. he will move heaven and earth just to be with you!
i just can say ';good luck with that';
He probably wants some fun but is reluctant of possible strings attached (commitment that you may want). So if there are no strings then go on and tell him. Have a good time and just let it develop if it ever does. Who knows. Remember, who dares wins!
I think the best way to get the guy is to come out and tell him how you feel. Believe it or not, guys can be quite dumb (myself included) and we do not realize what exactly is going on or pick up on hints at all, even if it seems that we are. Most guys dont play hard to get, thats more of a girl thing, we usually like things laid right out on the table. If you like him, just tell him. It sounds like he likes you too, being ';mean'; especially in a fun-like way is almost always a sign of flirting. Take the chance and go for it. You most likely wont be disappointed.
Good luck friend
~James S.
read the book Why men lov bitches...and yes!be hard to get!!wutever u do dont admit u like him!be harder to get than he is.hell luv that challenge
It sounds like he cannot make up his own mind, so you can either approach him directly and make it for him or you can move on and find someone who is more sure of what he wants.
act like u dont give a **** about him, talk to other guy in front of him
Guys dont play hard to get. Either he's shy, you're throwing him mixed signals and it's confusing him, or he isn't really interested. Tell him you want to go out!
try playing hard to get as well. its really fun when you get into it.
tease him back. a lot of guys like that go nuts for it. itmight be what he is after.
if this doesnt work try the direct approach.
Treat him like he treats you. Act a little flirty but then blow him off. See if comes after you
y dont you go up to him and give him a real sexy come and get me smile and see if he wlks over then youll now u have him in da bag and also if it works ask him out!!
Alright, well as a 20 year old guy I can tell you what I would want. Personally, I love the hunt. I like a girl to make me work for it a little bit, but if you pull away too far he might get sick of it and move on, I know I have my breaking points. My suggestion would be to drop hints; don't make it easy or TOO hard; and make physical contact every once in a while to show what you think. I don't mean grope him or anything, just a quick hug, hand on an arm, something small. People forget how important body language is and says a lot more than words could in the early stages of a relationship.
Assuming he is anything like me he will follow you like a lost puppy if he has any interest in you and ask you out soon enough.
hes just being playful, just play along, have fun
mm i would give it a little more time then if it's going nowhere tell him how you feel if he reciproacates then good if not move on =]
Guys are always mean in a fun way when they have a crush
go with the flow
play hard , guys don't like a girl to up front but smile and touch there arm. talk sweet to them, and be flirty,
Men are obsessed with the chase.
Mean playfully flirt and then ignore him for a couple days, see what he does. But just make sure you don't play TOO hard to get..
what should I do? should I just give in and say I really want to hang out with him? or should I act like a don't care?
if you play hard to get what is it you want the other person to do?
sometimes we are flirty and hanging out and other times he's kinda mean to me but in a fun way.This guy is playing hard to get?
ok you are11 an he is 12 what the f**kThis guy is playing hard to get?
Guys ain't that emotionally savvy. He's not playing hard-to-get, he's just playing. If you like him, go with the flow. He's dancing, follow his lead.
Are you both grown and out of school --working full time and all?? If so don't sweat it --if not don't bother--finish school have fun and then see where you are--it doesn't sound like he is playing hard to get--just maybe dating one on one isn't what he is into--and that is fine--if you each enjoy hanging out that is fine--don't force the issue--if its right and I believe that people come together if its meant not because its fought for--
just be yourself .. if he is really into you, you don't even have to do a thing .. he will move heaven and earth just to be with you!
i just can say ';good luck with that';
He probably wants some fun but is reluctant of possible strings attached (commitment that you may want). So if there are no strings then go on and tell him. Have a good time and just let it develop if it ever does. Who knows. Remember, who dares wins!
I think the best way to get the guy is to come out and tell him how you feel. Believe it or not, guys can be quite dumb (myself included) and we do not realize what exactly is going on or pick up on hints at all, even if it seems that we are. Most guys dont play hard to get, thats more of a girl thing, we usually like things laid right out on the table. If you like him, just tell him. It sounds like he likes you too, being ';mean'; especially in a fun-like way is almost always a sign of flirting. Take the chance and go for it. You most likely wont be disappointed.
Good luck friend
~James S.
read the book Why men lov bitches...and yes!be hard to get!!wutever u do dont admit u like him!be harder to get than he is.hell luv that challenge
It sounds like he cannot make up his own mind, so you can either approach him directly and make it for him or you can move on and find someone who is more sure of what he wants.
act like u dont give a **** about him, talk to other guy in front of him
Guys dont play hard to get. Either he's shy, you're throwing him mixed signals and it's confusing him, or he isn't really interested. Tell him you want to go out!
try playing hard to get as well. its really fun when you get into it.
tease him back. a lot of guys like that go nuts for it. itmight be what he is after.
if this doesnt work try the direct approach.
Treat him like he treats you. Act a little flirty but then blow him off. See if comes after you
y dont you go up to him and give him a real sexy come and get me smile and see if he wlks over then youll now u have him in da bag and also if it works ask him out!!
Alright, well as a 20 year old guy I can tell you what I would want. Personally, I love the hunt. I like a girl to make me work for it a little bit, but if you pull away too far he might get sick of it and move on, I know I have my breaking points. My suggestion would be to drop hints; don't make it easy or TOO hard; and make physical contact every once in a while to show what you think. I don't mean grope him or anything, just a quick hug, hand on an arm, something small. People forget how important body language is and says a lot more than words could in the early stages of a relationship.
Assuming he is anything like me he will follow you like a lost puppy if he has any interest in you and ask you out soon enough.
hes just being playful, just play along, have fun
mm i would give it a little more time then if it's going nowhere tell him how you feel if he reciproacates then good if not move on =]
Guys are always mean in a fun way when they have a crush
go with the flow
play hard , guys don't like a girl to up front but smile and touch there arm. talk sweet to them, and be flirty,
Men are obsessed with the chase.
Mean playfully flirt and then ignore him for a couple days, see what he does. But just make sure you don't play TOO hard to get..
Help!!! guys/girl what do i do !?!! easy points. desperatee?
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