tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41517838833198178222024-03-08T09:31:10.215-08:00How do i talk to women that play hard to get?Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.comBlogger174125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-56350955422577312802010-08-20T22:16:00.001-07:002010-08-20T22:16:38.152-07:00How can I play hard to get?Please give me some successful tips on how to play hard to get with a guy that is aggressive and flirty? Thank youHow can I play hard to get?<br >Why u wanna do tht ?!!<br><br /><br />do u want him or not!!!How can I play hard to get?<br >Make it seem like you are busy with your own life. Guys love it when women have their own thing going on.<br >act vaguely uninterested.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Meaning, give a causal smile but too hard. Glance but don't look.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Be busy and pre ocupied<br >I have always been hard to get (not ';played'; i was hard to get) And it really works...<br><br /><br />but dont ignore him.<br><br /><br />When he wants to talk to you just talk to him if he tries to kiss you do not let him kiss you (never say you have another boyfriend if its not true)<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Let him try to get close to you and look for you but dont you look for him... be flirty though.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Then when you think its the time to show him love and that you like him like he does too stop being hard to get and stick around.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />It really works to see who really does love you or who's just trying to use you. If hes just trying to use you and he says it to you just say sorry you dont play like that.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Trust me, all my relationships have been long-term, the only 2 ive had. Thats why im hard to get.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />be succesful like me! lol<br >I play hard to get all the time but I am surrounded by beautiful women all the time ! It's hell for me too !!!<br >just ignore his IM's or flirt with other guys to make him want you! that will make him more determind to get with you. trust me guys love the chase..guys think hard-to-get girls are more fit for a relationship. if they think ur not hard to get u must not be any good.<br >No. you shouldn't play hard to get because if you really like him you should go out. but if you keep playin, hes gonna find a new ''play ground''Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-30748307044390703462010-08-20T22:16:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:16:14.095-07:00How do I play hard to get with a guy?hard to get isn't really a game you play, it's a state of being. You have to feel that you are an extremely valuable person worth being with, and show it through your actions. you have to keep a part of you within you, that only a few elite people (your closest friends, most loved ones) are allowed to see and have access to. if you think highly of YOU, than so will he.How do I play hard to get with a guy?<br >get a restraining order against him, threaten to tell his wife<li><a href='http://www.computer-security.com.cn/free-anti-virus/'>free anti virus</a></li><li><a href='http://www.ineedaloan.com.cn/bridge-loan/'>bridge loan</a></li>Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-41530235884600473612010-08-20T22:15:00.001-07:002010-08-20T22:15:34.626-07:00How do you play hard to get, When he's playing hard to get?I was with a guy for 2 and a half years and were talking again. Im young, Im 16. So he his playing th hard to get game. I know he still loves me because i talk to his family. How do i play hard to get back, So i can show him its not cool.How do you play hard to get, When he's playing hard to get?<br >Maybe start trying to get to him and then when he eases up start playing hard to get when you get him chasing you, did that make sence hahaha!How do you play hard to get, When he's playing hard to get?<br >Do what he is doing...<br >Honestly don't do it.<br><br /><br />HE is the one being immature.<br><br /><br />Just be mature about the whole situation.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-862664939443074242010-08-20T22:15:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:15:11.666-07:00How do I play hard to get for this guy??!!! Girls and boys advices!! Please HELP!!?Hello, everybody!! I want to play hard to get for this guy I like in school. This dude is FINE AS HELL! I want to play hard get so he will want me more. I think he like the cat and mouse game. But I'm not down with that, yo. I don't like wasting my time. But many people said that ';play hard to get'; is the way for him to want me more. That will greater the chances of him asking me out. Okay..I give in. What are the greatest advices to help me? Instructions and all, okay. <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Thank you!How do I play hard to get for this guy??!!! Girls and boys advices!! Please HELP!!?<br >I never believed in that playing hard to get. If you are hard to get, he may not want to even try, then where are you.<br><br /><br />If he's that fine, and you want him that badly, then you should make it easier for him to get you, not harder.<br><br /><br />Maybe you should ask him out, suggest a movie or something, let him know you are interested in getting to know him better.<br><br /><br />Lets face it, if he is as fine as hell, he'll probably have lots of girls chasing him. So playing hard to get, would put you at the end of the line, not up front, where you want to be. <br><br /><br />Just go for it, what do you have to lose. It's worth a shot.How do I play hard to get for this guy??!!! Girls and boys advices!! Please HELP!!?<br >Who ever told you playing hard to get is the kee is lying.....PERIOD!! Maybe they dont want you with him ever think of that..No guy I know wants to waste time chasing a girl who he thinks dosnt want him.....DUMB!! Let him know you like him in some way...If he dosnt respond, then he dosnt like you and you shouldnt waste your time...<br >If you just want him to play, then play hard to get, if you want a real relationship then be real and upfront about it and see what happens.<br >talk to him a little, get to know him a little then ignore him.......<br >Guys are dumb<br><br /><br />we don't like mind games<br><br /><br />just ask him outJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-43584520573670131222010-08-20T22:14:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:14:34.053-07:00How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he giveThis guy I work with in the grocery store is Hott and I catch my self checking him out all the time, We always make eye contact from a distance and when he walks buy me he just looks at me and walks by but continues to look at me and doesnt say anything. When I go through the check out line to get something (just because he's the one running the check out line) We have small talk for like 10 seconds and thats it. When I see him in the store he gives off body language like he is gay, and he's not married but he may be engaged. What do I do to get his attention?How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give<br >Sorry, possibly gay guys don't give off different signals from other guys or I would have skipped my first husband. When you do your small talk thing, just slip in an innocent sounding question like ';how old do you think you'll be when you get married';. If he says he's engaged now, you'll know. If he says ';never';, ask why and he might tell you if he's gay.How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give<br >Huh????<br >Getting anyone's attention is pretty much the same no matter who it happens to be. You either need an ';in,'; or you need to be bold enough to create your own.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />You are fortunate in that you two already work together - that's your in. If you're both old enough, try inviting him out for a beer after work, but be passive about it. (If he's going straight home after work, would he be up for stopping off for a beer - NOT like you're asking him out on a date for an evening.) If you're not old enough to do that, try getting your break at the same time he does and use the time to strike up a conversation. Find some common ground - sports you both like, other interests, whatever. Look for an opportunity to meet up outside of work, to watch a game for example.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Use caution while you feel this guy out and determine what he's really all about. Not to discourage you, but we're all human and can tend to see or hear what we want, instead of what's really in front of us. You may interpreting his behavior the way you'd like to think of it, and the last thing you want to do is have him running around the store telling everyone you hit on him when he's got a fiance or something.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Good luck.<br >I guess you could always flash him the secret gay hand signal, and see how he reacts! Heh, heh, just kidding!<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />If you are out, then maybe you should try wearing a 'Gay and Proud'; T shirt, or a rainbow pin to the store while off duty. Then when you stop to talk to him, see what he says. If he is gay and is interested, then he will make the next move.<br >ask himJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-10034716805351829342010-08-20T22:13:00.002-07:002010-08-20T22:13:56.497-07:00Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?and when we are straight forward (us girls), how can we tell if a guy is into it? i am confused because i really like this guy that i met at the beach..and i thought i made it pretty obvious. so we ended up kissing that night and before it got too hardcore i asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said it was complicated. he kinda resisted me the whole night but i could tell there was an energy between us. however, the next night he came back.. i didnt drink that night unlike the night before (when we kissed) and i kept on apologizing to hiim for coming on so strong. do you think he's interested? i know that if i kissed someone who i didnt like, i would make it a point not to see them , especially since he knew i liked hiim. im confuusssseedd... oh and here's another thing. he was more willing to triple kiss with me and another girl than with just ME...and i am not the type of girl that likes that kind of action and i told him and he said that that was ';good';..hes a moral type of guy .Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?<br >They like girls that don't assume that every man is the same and all want the same thing. Do all of your girlfriends and you like the same look? the same attitude? the same sense of humor? Probably not... Believe it or not, it's the same with them. Some like straightforwardness while others like timid.Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?<br >I'd prefer a woman that is shy, but once you get to know her she can turn you on and know which buttons to press... <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Yes I can see why its confusing, but if I like a girl then I would try to concentrate just on her and let the triple kissing thing come much much later. It seems that although he's nice, he may got the wrong impression with you being under the influence and all. But the good thing is that he feels guilt, I mean after you brought up the girlfriend thing. <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />But I'd say just watch your step... because guys can be.... guys!<br >i would say i like a girl to be in between that. not so straightforward and not so shy. how can you tell? if you're dropping hints and he's picking it.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />it seems that from the first night, you stopped him from going farther because of what you asked him: complicated means he's commited to someone.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />the second night seems he's interested to a repeat performance, thought about it, doesnt care if he's in a complicated relationship or not. <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />but if he wants another girl, that's THREESOME. (typical man's sex fantasy!) from this you can tell that he's just into something, and you know what it is.<br >I just think some guys dont know what they want. Most like to cheat but say they dont. I think he was interested but when you brought up the fact if he was single or not it made him think which alot of guys dont like to do they just like to go with the flow. dont even think about it you seem like a nice person its his loss.<br >For some guys it is intimidating and awkward if a girl is straight forward. Shy and hard to get can be too cryptic though. <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Maybe I'm just a dumbass.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-32053558612694521442010-08-20T22:13:00.001-07:002010-08-20T22:13:34.325-07:00How do I play hard to get with this guy?I'm sort of dating this guy... we hang out periodically and he acts like he likes me but then he says he doesn't do the ';dating'; scene... he just likes to take it one day at a time.. one day I get a vibe from him that he likes me, and then the next day he doesn't answer my calls... thats IT!!!!!! How do I play hard to get w/him cuz obviously throwing myself out there is not the way to go about it... I know he likes me, he compliments me all the time - is he just shy? wtf...How do I play hard to get with this guy?<br >I LOVE this type of stuff...because I do so much of it myself. <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Firstly, from reading your post, you sound like your are kinda desperate to get him to notice you and not play it cool. That's NOT good - it only will encourage him to play hard to get even more. <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />You have to let him know that two people can play the game - that he is not the centre of your world (even if he is.) For example, if he mentions he sent you a msg or email, pretend you didn't read it because you were too busy and had other priorities. Don't say yes to everything he asks for. Group outings where you and him are part of the group? Don't go to everyone - it will make him miss you more.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />The point of playing hard to get is to get the other person to treasure and cherish you for when you are around and miss you when you are not. Be cheeky but don't hurt him. <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />I will admit it I played it overboard once and it turned out into a mess. He gave up and fell in love with another girl. I regret it very much.How do I play hard to get with this guy?<br >DO THE SAME THING......Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-52511072006140230562010-08-20T22:13:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:13:09.616-07:00How to play hard to get with a guy?This guy always says he likes me and wants to get with me, but theres this other girl that I think he might be secretly interested in. I want to play hard to get with the boy, because I think it will make him more interested. The other girl always acts like that, and it seems to work for her, so I want to give it a try but I don't really know how.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />So I need help,<br><br /><br />and no bullshit pleaseHow to play hard to get with a guy?<br >There comes a point in every person's life when they get sick of the petty head games that are played in the world of dating, and we all wonder, ';Why can't it just be simple?';<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />The moment I dropped the bullshit head games and just acted real [[no hard to get]], I got the man of my dreams. I didn't hide my feelings from him - and in turn, he didn't hide them from me.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />My perspective: If you have to ';play hard to get'; to make someone like you, then there is something wrong. He should like you for the way you are - not because you manipulated him into through childish head games.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />Don't play hard to get.How to play hard to get with a guy?<br >You haven't provided enough information about your situation. how do you know this guy ? how often do you see him? talk to him? call him? text him? If you like him and you need to see if he likes you just ignore him for a little while and see how he reacts. I do seem to find girls more attractive when they aren't letting me know I can have them all the time and when I see they might be interested in someone else or the calls or texts stopped I get more attracted. I wonder what's up<br >Ok,<br><br /><br />If he says hey to you then you sya: hey yourself<br><br /><br />If says want to sit with me you say: maybe i do and maybe i dont<br><br /><br />If he says how you doing you say: it depends<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />good luck<br><br /><br />take care<li><a href='http://www.computer-security.com.cn/free-anti-virus/'>free anti virus</a></li><li><a href='http://www.ineedaloan.com.cn/bridge-loan/'>bridge loan</a></li>Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-82480113061373124462010-08-20T22:12:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:12:12.083-07:00Ask him out or play hard to get?What is your opinion<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />My friend says that its rule #5 of being popular NOT to ask a guy out but to play hard to get but i dont know how to play hard to get and i really want to know if this guy likes me and i REALLY want to go on a date with him <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />What do i do????Ask him out or play hard to get?<br >really it depends on the guy...playing hard to get can work if he's the kinda guy that likes a chase. but you don't want to come off as too mysterious. Ignoring them tends to work, especially if you smile everyone once in a while. Not in a weird way or anything but if you smile most guys take that as a sign you may like them, and that mixed with the playing hard to get will probably leave them wondering more about you.So then they may want to know you better. But if you want to know if the guy likes you then just walk past him and smile or say hey or something to get his attention and then see how he reacts.....good luck!Ask him out or play hard to get?<br >This is what you do dont worry about rule number 5 (WTF) do what ever makes you happy if you feel the need to ask him out then ask him sit down and have a real conversation with him and explaine what you want and then see how he feels....good luck hunny and the popularity thing dont get to caught up in it because when you 21 like me it doesnt matter how popular you where it matters who or what makes you happy<br >Play medium to get! Seriously lol. Don't be too obvious but don't be too mysterious either! Drop hints every now and then =P<br >I hate playing hard to get to be honest. I would tell him. Peoplel say you should not let him no you are interested and play hard to get, but I don't believe them. I think you should go for it.<br >..sweetie, never ask a guy out....but tell him that you like him...<br >i wouldnt wait to long he could move on quick. play hard to get for a week or two then ask him out if he seems interested. just flirt a little bit with him and first see if he is really someone that you would like to go out with get to know him a little.<br >playing hard to get is annoying , ask him out<br >well girl honestly i think it is okay if you ask a guy out, i mean if you really like this guy how are you going to find out unless you tell him maybe he is shy and he is waiting for you to make your move.<br >Well, first, talk to him, you know, sound real interesting, and then, when he's about to ask you out, say you have to go but you'd love to talk to him later. When you're walking away, walk as sexy as you can, and then look back at him and give him a smile/wink.<br >I think you should wait to get asked out.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-78483515153846657472010-08-20T22:11:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:11:17.496-07:00How to play hard to get and keeeep playing hard to get lol??? ?i like this guy like i really like him but i want to play hard to get but i always seem to give in to him..... what should i do to pretend im not infatuated with him? but i still want to be around him, i dont want to ignore him completely ages 18(me) and 26(him) often see each other at workHow to play hard to get and keeeep playing hard to get lol??? ?<br >well you can still pay hard to get but if you take it too far you might lose him. Well like flirt with him but at a certain point just walk away How to play hard to get and keeeep playing hard to get lol??? ?<br >What's the point for such an stand.. you are not fooling anybody else but you..<br><br /><br />If you wanna be around him. that's perfectly ok.. unless you are committed to someone else...<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />and secondly, you can pretend for a very long time...anyways.<br >If you play too hard to get, you'll never get got. Know what I mean?<br >stop playing games. its a relationship killer.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-86088682259314440202010-08-20T22:10:00.002-07:002010-08-20T22:10:47.722-07:00How to play hard to get?okay well theres this guy, and he played around with me before and now is starting to text me again and acting just like before... i don't want to give in, and i want to play hard to get. before, he used to send me mixed signals and it used to drive me crazy. <br><br /><br />how can i play hard to get?How to play hard to get?<br >little things like don't return his text messages straight away be coy with him.How to play hard to get?<br >do the same give mixed signals make him know ur sexi but then make him not know it flirt wit himJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-18999860645335338832010-08-20T22:10:00.001-07:002010-08-20T22:10:24.141-07:00How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?i really like this guy and i think he likes me too and i dont want to look too into him by always picking up his phone calls and stuff like that but i also dont like to play games because thats childish to me so how do i make him not loose interest...for example how long do i wait after he texts me to reply back and if i ignore his phone call do i ignore it for a whole day and call him back the next day or just wait for a couple of hours...someone teach me how to play the game to keep him on his toes without overdoing it.... i hate games but my friends say thats the only way to keep a guy still liking you because if you always seem available he'll loose interest.How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?<br >there's nothing more sleezy than being easy. its a GREAT thing that u play hard to get. that exactly whats supposed to happen. if u really like the boy then he should work for your attention. u cant just have a relationship with random guys they have to earn it. he'll respect u and cherish u more by doing so. ;) theres no ';deadline'; to playing hard to get. just do it until u FEEL it's appropriate to establish a relationship. long enough that u know he's for real and that he's not a jerk pretending to be a nice boy.How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?<br >Yes play hard to get... i would say dont return his call until like couple hours because then he'll be wondering why didnt you pick up or called back and you dont want to call the next day when he kinda forgot he even called you. Well i think your doing perfect cause i have sooo many s-l-u-t-s in my school they playy so easy to get its not even funny lol Good luck :)<br >As a guy we absolutly hate that. Heres how to play the game : go in head first. When you tease him and play your little games hell loose intrest and move right on leaving you and your excotic teasing *** behind.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-49170239493558829932010-08-20T22:10:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:10:01.999-07:00How do i play hard to get?i wanna play hard to get with this guy that i like.what should i do?How do i play hard to get?<br >just smile when he talks to you.How do i play hard to get?<br >From time to time ignore him. Then once he starts giving you attention ignore him but every once in a while act flirty so at least he knows you're interested. But when you flirt do in a sort of obnoxious way to where he knows you're kidding but it's cute.<br >Be careful not to over do it, but try flirting with other guys when he's around. Make sure you don't completely ignore your man though. Also make sure your not always the one approaching him, wait for him to initiate conversations. Don't drag on the playing hard to get too long though because he may eventually just give up.<br >Pretend with him that you don't like him! Play hard but carefully!<br >hahaa ok. ive been taught by a dating expert haha, so listen close! first, if u hang out with him a lot, dont act like u HAVE to talk. have the attitude of, ';im worth ur time, and i dont have to talk if i dont wana.'; also, if u think hes staring at u, DONT LOOK!!! if u wanna know if hes staring at u, look past him, than when u turn back around, look at him briefly with short eye contact. it works. plus, always laugh realllly loud and act like u dont need a guy. good luck!<br >Wanna know what I do? Don't stare at him every moment. What he says - it's not funny (unless it is like REALLY funny, you have to give some clue you like him). Make HIM do all the first moves (starting converstaions, walking next to you). And when he talks to other girls in front of you, you don't give a foot about it. Warning: Playing hard to get may disinterest guy or the results will take a long time to happen. But whatever you do, don't keep this up a long time. Once you've had a good amount of conversations, that's when you really start showing interest and you're the one who says hi first.<br >act like you dont care<br><br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6H3ZHRltvc<br >u have gotta not do wat they want but flirt while you do this for example if he gives you a hug and trys to kiss you put your finger to his lips give him a cute no teeth smile and say not yet and then hug him. might not be that but that same sort of concept. does he like you cause if you say if he does or if he doesnt or whether you dont know i can give you alot more help :)<br >im a guy and it drives me nuts when a girl flirts with me and then tottally stops for a while.<br><br /><br />(make cute smileys too even when ur not in a good mood) ex. ; P : ) =)<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />hope i helped. lolJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-16781555180282859402010-08-20T22:09:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:09:25.651-07:00How to play hard to get with a guy?i really like this guy and i wanna take a different approach with him and play hard to get however whenever i try to play hard to get i come off as either a ***** or not interested at all, anyone know how to play hard to get the RIGHT way and make the guy want you more?. if he asks me to call him (which he does about everyother night) should i call him? if we've been on the phone for awhile do i get off? or is it cute to fall asleep on the phone?<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br /> HELP PLEASE !!!!!How to play hard to get with a guy?<br >just tell him you really like him. date him!How to play hard to get with a guy?<br >To tell you the truth most guys don鈥檛 like games but if you must play them the way to do it is mess around with like should him that you like him the shy away from him thats the only way<br >there is no right way to play hard to get. Boys dont want to play your stupid games. You get what you have coming to you by being a jerk.<br >well, take this with a grain of salt.. but usually when someone plays hard to get they switch off and on from being cold to being open and warm. It doesn't stop at one or the other.<li><a href='http://www.computer-security.com.cn/free-anti-virus/'>free anti virus</a></li><li><a href='http://www.ineedaloan.com.cn/bridge-loan/'>bridge loan</a></li>Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-9059442323593896302010-08-20T22:08:00.001-07:002010-08-20T22:08:54.435-07:00How can i play these guys? ?ok, i need straightforward detailed answers, no jugement. A few months a go I met Guy A. We hung out a little, had sex. But i didnt really like him, im not sure if i can say he really liked me. Anyway, time went by and we stopped hanging together. No hard feelings, I was ok with it. Cause I just wanted to be friends from the beginning. Time goes by and I met Guy B. He is really nice, but the sex is horrible. So I started skillfully avoiding him. One day we found out we both know Guy A. We all live in the same apartment complex, its really a big place tho. Suddenly, Guy A starts talking to me again asking if i want to hang out. And to me, it looks like Guy B told him to call me since i was avoiding him. Kind of a test to see if I was gonna do something with Guy A. I don't like any of these guys, and if they are scheming against me, How should I deal with this situation. I'm supposed to see both of them today. Should I see both, just Guy A, just Guy B, give reasons for your answer. Maybe I shouldn't see any of them. But I have to get back at them for scheming this if they are, or am I just paranoid.How can i play these guys? ?<br >no problem or questions will ever be finished if your not gonna face them. be a strong and fair person face them both or ask them a straight question. survival of the fittest! GO GIRL! How can i play these guys? ?<br >y would u turn down guy B just cause of his bed skills...?<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />shallow tsk tsk<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />plus how bad can he be... -.-Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-65637387550675373342010-08-20T22:08:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:08:20.057-07:00How do i play hard to get with this guy?yeah so how do i play hard to get??? i want him to chase me, not the other way around! im the one that text him...but only sometimes he text me. how do i play hard to gettttHow do i play hard to get with this guy?<br >I have found that in the friendship I'm forming right now, that playing hard to get is FUN! It's cute to see the guy's reaction. So basically playing hard to get means that you DONT call him, DONT text him, and DONT chase him. Men like the hunt. If a guy wants you, he will come and get you, but you have to let the guys do the chasing. It took me so long to figure that out, but as of now, it's working like a charm. If he doesn't respond to you not responding, then he's just not that into you.....sorry. Good Luck!!How do i play hard to get with this guy?<br >Do not no why you want to play hard to get, But i am thinking you texting him is not going to help. You want to play the game just leave him be, and see if he comes after you. But if you like him, and really want him to your bf are what ever, I would not try very long for another girl that nos what she is looking for may end up with him..<br >be a little bipolar with him (lol) let him think your really into him then just pretend like you couldn't care less and he'll chase you!<br >dont answer him for a few days hell realize that he misses you because hes not getting the usual attention you give him<br >Becareful he may think your not worth all the drama<br >totally ignore him and act as if yu dont want him! =]<br >Go hot and cold. lolJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-67878091379477215352010-08-20T22:07:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:07:34.886-07:00How come he tells me he likes me but doesnt talk to me when hes with his friends?I rlly like this guy but play hard to get and i think he is now too. He'll text me and say he rlly likes me and that he wants to chill but im always busy so we havent yet but at school he doesnt rlly talk to me when hes with his friends. what does this mean?How come he tells me he likes me but doesnt talk to me when hes with his friends?<br >He could be shy around you.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-61935903419923906412010-08-20T22:06:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:06:53.243-07:00How can you tell if a guy is playing hard to get or .....?My ex bf broke up wit me 3 weeks ago for wat i think was a very dumb reason: Me n my friends had rented a cabin in Poconos n were goin there for a weekend. I had invited my bf eventho he really doesnt like any of my friends, cus the guys r always hitting on the girls n the girls are known for being party girls n he doesnt like it wen I drink. Well he said he didnt wana go n that he didnt want me going on my own so if i went on the trip witout him he would break up with me. Well I told him I was goin anyway n so he dumped me. I called him n left him a msg sayin I love him n I wana be with him n we can try n work something out. He didnt call me back. n ive called him a lot n very few times he picks up n wen he does his like indiferent. n his called me a few times -some ive answered some ive not-. So do u guys think he was just lookin for an excuse to break up? or he just wants me to show him how much I reale wana b wit him? (we went out for 1.5 yr)How can you tell if a guy is playing hard to get or .....?<br >hmmm....i think thats a dumb reason too....sounds a bit controlling in my opinion...so in a way i think it was an excuse but i think it was also a test....on how much you loved him...because no offence but in his opinion if you loved him you would listen to him...not trying to be rude just imoHow can you tell if a guy is playing hard to get or .....?<br >could be either...i mean if u have been going for a year and a half and this happened just like that u have to think...has there been any other talk of breaking up before? were u guys still fighting about something already...if the answer is no everything is fine...then im not really sure what hes thinking but i can understand...some of my gfs friends i dont like...i dont mind her chilling with them sometimes but sometimes i do ask her not to go...tho she usually goes anyways lol and i just have to deal with it...and if hes really serious about ending the relationship...if hes bluffing or not id say just stay....if hes testing u...u pass...if hes not....ur showing him u really care and that if he feels strongly about something u will back him up on that...of corse that is if ur relationship means more to u then a weekend...it would be fun...but would it be worth it?Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-8538466228177804272010-08-20T22:05:00.001-07:002010-08-20T22:05:30.526-07:00How to play hard to get with a guy you like?and be good at it? best tips? thnx %26lt;3How to play hard to get with a guy you like?<br >why you have to do this? just act normal..think it's cute but if you get overboard it kills<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />just an advice:<br><br /><br />if you do those thing he might as well think that you're not interested in him (this is always come as 1st thought, more less try to rethink).. not so many people like to be played around and get confused.. they got something else to think about (job, study, problem arises)..if your guy is not into games you gonna loose him faster than you could imagine..don't be a burden be a helper <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />try ask those who does those things..did she/he get married happily in the end? is she/he is happy now? they suffer more actually..<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />something to share:<br><br /><br />once n i like this girl.. at first she talk to me but then suddenly she act like she don't care..not replying my text and ignoring my call..walk away ignoring me..i think she enjoy doing it that but i don't (actually she overdo it)..everyone has their own limits and when it got too much they exploded.. at first i do the chase but after all the confusion I stop calling or text her.. after one month she start calling me asking why i didn't call her anymore said that she's been waiting for my reply..i lost interest in her just because i feel that i can't trust her anymore..try to give her a chance but then she did it again (yay)..right now i don't care if she likes me or not, to me there's a 'better' person out there for her..How to play hard to get with a guy you like?<br >Don't play hard to get-- it doesn't end well. Don't be easy and ';OMG ILY!!!';-- play it cool-- but don't give him the wrong idea.<br >playing games will make him have no guilt in cheating on you<br >thats easy - just act like he is no big deal -<br >Now This is my forte! All my friends are so damn easy, and Im the only hard to get one, and trust me it turns out really well in the end. You cant just say things to make you hard to get, you have to think it. Don't settle for anything less than the best of your selection. Turn guys you dont really like down. Dont call guys (my friends do that and the guy they like thinks they are stalker and he asked me out) wait for them to call, and if they dont, they are not interested. (Your to good for them) and my number one rule do NOT NOT NOT, sleep with them, until marraige....well maybe(what im trying to say is dont get drunk and give bj's, and have sex!) . Dont makeout on your first day of going out. You have to make him want, and work for you. Tease a little bit, like if your bf, or crush says something erotic to you, then say something like ';mabey';, *wink* and walk away. Good luck!<br >don't unless u are still in 3RD GRADE<br >Don't play games with a guy just be a respectable lady and don't be easy.<br >flash him one day then when ever he comes hear you act all conservitave and zip your jacket or cross your arms.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />if you dont want to do that then flirt a lil one day so he knows then just make him feel like he is not important<br >im sorry to me playing hard to get is saying im not interested --- so if he thinks like me (that no means no) he will not chase and lose interest --- be honest and dont play games --- best wishes<br >just act like you would with a guy that u absolutely had no interest in whats so ever but still wanted to be nice. For example just talk to him only if he talks to you. dont make too much eye contact, but still seam available, u dont want to make him not interested in you if he know that you want nothing to do with him.<br >Why would you even want to ??? I get bored instantly with girls like that and move right along...<br >personally, me being a guy. i dont really like it when a girl plays hard to get, or at least really hard to get. if done wrong it can make it seem like the girl isnt interested at all. so if you do decide to play hard to get, dont completely ignore him, make it show that your interested, without making it seem like you really like him. just make him work hard, to a certain extent. cause a lot of guys dont like to work hard, although i think all good relationships require some work.<br >Well I hope you dont like the guy. If I was him I would move on very quickly.<br >One word: Don't. A lot of guys just get pissed off and stop dealing with you if they think you're playing games with them. Just be real. You don't have to be obsessed with them or whatever, but just get to know them without messing with their heads. If you do happen to find a guy that chases after you more because your playing hard to get, he's prolly desperate and thats not the type of guy you'll want to date.<br >Just don't always be so available.<br >don't do that. guys get really bored with that kind of stuff. i know i do. it's annoying. just be yourself.<br >if he asks u out say lemme think about it and wink, flirt w/ other boys they get jealous, and it depends on ur rep to if uve gone out with a bunch of guys u should be good 2 go Hope this helps!<br >dont play games wiv guys, they find you out sooner or later and **** you off.<br >playing hard to get played out<br >guys have too many other things to worry about than a girl that plays games. just make him a sandwich and let it be known that you like him and you got him.<br >The way to play 'hard to get' is to flirt and be friendly with the guy but not too close. Let him go on the answer machine several times before you speak to him and if you regularly see him out, show him that you like him by talking to him and being friendly but surround yourself with other male and female company as well. The best tip is simply : don't be overly available and NEVER appear too needy or interested. Nobody likes a needy person and the same goes for friendships of the same sex. Needy people are energy drainers and take more than they give. If a guy thinks a girl is needy or easy, there's no challenge in the whole thing. Good luck.<br >Hey, playing too hard to get will keep a lot of guys from trying.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />I'm sorry, but most of us guys just don't get the games.<br >My best tip is not to. It's dishonest and no way to begin a relationship. It reinforces the idea that all girls play games, which I personally resent. Be real. Then you can expect the same of him. But if you play games, don't feel justified in complaining when/if he ever lies to you.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-19389053926347452192010-08-20T22:05:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:05:13.489-07:00How do you play hard to get?I am a 21 year old female. I have never played hard to get and have always gotten in a relationship with a guy and given him everything from the start. Needless to say, i was never a challenge and the relationships never lasted. how do i play hard to get and get the guy to like me more and more without him losing interest in me. i always thought the guy would lose interest so i never tried it. and how long do i play hard to get? when i do accept a date, how far should i go on the first date? like should i make out on the first date? i would like to learn how to play hard to get without losing the guys interest.How do you play hard to get?<br >Playing 'hard to get' is easy, you just limit communication and intimacy while continuing to flirt and draw their attention.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />But I'm not sure that is the best technique to get what you say you are pursuing. You state you want to have a good relationship and to keep the guy around.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />To do that: Find out what he wants in a long term partner, and see if you can become some of those things. After a short time, ';playing hard to get'; stops working. What will make a relationship is to find the symbiotic things that you can both do for each other to help you reach your long term goals.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />How far on the first date? Here is probably where ';playing hard to get'; does have value. Err on the side of doing less. If it will be a good long term relationship, then it won't probably fail because you weren't physically aggressive on the first date. Wait a few dates before trying to ignite his passion. Let him create demand and wonder in his brain before you supply the goods.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-46796632096716188032010-08-20T22:03:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:03:11.794-07:00After you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?ME AND THIS GUY WERE TALKING FOR ABOUT A MONTH. WE WOO ULD JOKE,TEASE, AND TALK TO EACH OTHER. WELL HE WOULD TALK ABOUT SEX ALOT AND IT WAS AGGRAVATING AT TIMES BUT IT WAS A TURN ON. THE PROBLEM WAS I WAS A VIRGIN AND I DIDN'T WANT TO BE ATTACHED TO HIM, GO AGAINST MY MORALS, AND GET PREG OR HAVE AN STD. I TOLD HIM ABOUT AND HE RESPECTED IT, BUT AT THE SAME TIME I KNEW I WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. WELL WE WENT TO A PLACE TO DO IT BUT WE REALLY COULDNT DO MUCH BECAUSE WE WERE AT A PUBLIC PLAY AND MADE ME FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE THAN ANY GUY. WELL AFTER THAT HE TEXTED ME AND WE TALKED ABOUT IT AND HE WAS REALLY COOL ABOUT IT. WELL THE NEXT DAY HE ASKED ME HOW I WHAT I WAS DOING AND WE JUST HAD LIKE A REGULAR CONVERSATION. HOWEVER, I STILL KINDA WHAT THIS GUY AS A BOYFRIEND IN THE NEAR FUTURE AND I WANT TO MAKE HIM WANT MORE SOOOOOOOOOOOOO CAN I STILL PLAYED HARD TO GET.After you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?<br >maybe not.. you made out alreadyAfter you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?<br >No thanks for description I hate caps lock.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />You can't play hard to get because I mean that's it theres nothing else to get!<br >NO BECAUSE WHAT IS THERE TO PLAY HARD TO GET FOR? HES ALREADY REACHED HIS GOAL.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />TURN OFF CAPS.<br >No. Because he got it. There's nothing hard to get anymore. It's all easy for him now!<br >stop shouting and breath<br >that is bad thing<br >so your not even with this guy.....!!!???!!!<br >yes u can not only with one but with anyone<br >there is nothing to get hard but still u feel like having go on itJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-80751338661663346402010-08-20T22:02:00.002-07:002010-08-20T22:02:54.185-07:00How to play hard to get....?how do you play hard to get with a guy......but not too much tho...cuz he will just quit trying.... i want his mind wondering...give me ideas pleaseHow to play hard to get....?<br >be all over him and flirty, and then try ignore him until he tries to get your attentionHow to play hard to get....?<br >Ur name is chase and ur asking that?Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-3883886536284437462010-08-20T22:02:00.001-07:002010-08-20T22:02:30.304-07:00How do you play hard to get with a guy?like i dont get the hard to get game <br><br /><br />does it it even work?<br><br /><br />and how do you even play hard to get<br><br /><br />so confused hahaHow do you play hard to get with a guy?<br >Check out this article on the matter:<br><br /><br />http://www.andhranews.net/Technology/200鈥?/a>How do you play hard to get with a guy?<br >No it does NOT work I repeat it does NOT work. I have friends who have tried that and it failed them miserably. This ';game'; is simply just a girl ignoring the guy they like because they think that the guy will want to go after them more. Some girls ignore their text messages, they don't say hi like at school, they basically just pretend they don't care about the guy, despite they know they want the guy badly. Its confusing I know but yeah it's a stupid thing to do because the guy might just give up and go crazy.<br >Don't. Unless he's very, very experienced with women, or a rockstar, it won't work. He'll just get frustrated.<br >Toying with someone's affections is not an ethical thing to do.<br >why play games, if he likes you and you like him, cut to the chase<li><a href='http://www.computer-security.com.cn/free-anti-virus/'>free anti virus</a></li><li><a href='http://www.ineedaloan.com.cn/bridge-loan/'>bridge loan</a></li>Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-3151696170108064012010-08-20T22:02:00.000-07:002010-08-20T22:02:05.763-07:00How do you play hard to get?Okay well I feel like recently all the guys have liked me and then if I like one we will talk for like a week and then he with play hard to get. I'm tired of it and I think its my turn to play hard to get. Help me. How do I play hard to get?How do you play hard to get?<br >don't play games, they're stupid.<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />But if you really want to play hard to get, i'd say you kick the guy in the balls everytime he tries to talk to you, that will keep him away, if that's what you are going forHow do you play hard to get?<br >You don't. People like you are annoying.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151783883319817822.post-55866671328504803062010-08-20T22:01:00.003-07:002010-08-20T22:01:49.661-07:00How do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?I LIKE HIM A LOT AND HE LIKES ME AND WERE DATING BUT I HEARD FROM A SOURCE THAT HES TRYING TO PLAY HARD TO GET LIKE TEASE ME AND ACT LIKE HE IS NOT ';TOO'; INTERESTED.AND IM A BIG TEASE ALREADY BUT WITH HIM I GET INTIMIDATED LIKE I CANT TEASE AS WELL AS I WOULD WITH ANOTHER GUY.SO HOW DO I TEASE/PLAY HARD TO GET?How do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?<br >quit playing gamesHow do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?<br >That is too funny.<br >you heard from a 'source'<br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />yikes, that just screams bad communication in your relationship.<br><br /><br />why are you overanalyzing so much? quit playing mind games and act yourself. you should be comfortable around him. teasing is fun but taking it to this level... jesus, too muhc effort.<br >if you play hard to get he may get the idea of you not being interested at all. Since you know he is playing hard to get (which means he actually does like you) there is no need for you to also play hard to get. He wants you to flirt, so play his game. Atleast for a lil while, and then just stop. He'll know you were interested and then hopefully feel you got tired of trying to ';make him notice';, and then he'll come after you. <br><br /><br /><br><br /><br />I guess thats what you'll do, if your into games like that. I personally wouldn't waste my time. If he is really interested, he needs to just step up and be a man. But I guess a lil fun won't hurt anyone.<br >why would you want to do that? that would lead to a vicious cycle of sadness, haha but seriously talk to him, its not cool to play hard to get, some people might get hurt.. and y would u want to play hard to get if you're dating him already?<br >Go down to Blockbuster and get the movie ';Gone With The Wind.'; It was on TV this weekend. Pay attention to the character Scarlett O'Hara. She is one chick who knows how to play hard to get with Rhett Butler. Once you watch that movie, you'll know how to do it. Also get the movie ';Lovestory'; with Ali McGraw and Ryan O'Neal. Ali McGraw played hard to get with Ryan O'Neal in Lovestory. You'll be educated for sure then.<br><br /><br />Btw, you have to start from the very begining of a relationship (before he even ask you for a date) for it to work. Not after you've already started dating him. It's too late then. Actually, playin' hard to get is simply.... easy to be with and hard to get. Because you have values, principles, and integrity.<br >If your already dating why are you playing games? Stop relying on ';sources'; and start asking what he likes/doesn't like so that you can actually keep him around.Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160752769953896344noreply@blogger.com0