Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?

and when we are straight forward (us girls), how can we tell if a guy is into it? i am confused because i really like this guy that i met at the beach..and i thought i made it pretty obvious. so we ended up kissing that night and before it got too hardcore i asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said it was complicated. he kinda resisted me the whole night but i could tell there was an energy between us. however, the next night he came back.. i didnt drink that night unlike the night before (when we kissed) and i kept on apologizing to hiim for coming on so strong. do you think he's interested? i know that if i kissed someone who i didnt like, i would make it a point not to see them , especially since he knew i liked hiim. im confuusssseedd... oh and here's another thing. he was more willing to triple kiss with me and another girl than with just ME...and i am not the type of girl that likes that kind of action and i told him and he said that that was ';good';..hes a moral type of guy .Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?
They like girls that don't assume that every man is the same and all want the same thing. Do all of your girlfriends and you like the same look? the same attitude? the same sense of humor? Probably not... Believe it or not, it's the same with them. Some like straightforwardness while others like timid.Do guys like girls to be more straight forward, or be shy and play hard to get?
I'd prefer a woman that is shy, but once you get to know her she can turn you on and know which buttons to press...





Yes I can see why its confusing, but if I like a girl then I would try to concentrate just on her and let the triple kissing thing come much much later. It seems that although he's nice, he may got the wrong impression with you being under the influence and all. But the good thing is that he feels guilt, I mean after you brought up the girlfriend thing.





But I'd say just watch your step... because guys can be.... guys!
i would say i like a girl to be in between that. not so straightforward and not so shy. how can you tell? if you're dropping hints and he's picking it.





it seems that from the first night, you stopped him from going farther because of what you asked him: complicated means he's commited to someone.





the second night seems he's interested to a repeat performance, thought about it, doesnt care if he's in a complicated relationship or not.





but if he wants another girl, that's THREESOME. (typical man's sex fantasy!) from this you can tell that he's just into something, and you know what it is.
I just think some guys dont know what they want. Most like to cheat but say they dont. I think he was interested but when you brought up the fact if he was single or not it made him think which alot of guys dont like to do they just like to go with the flow. dont even think about it you seem like a nice person its his loss.
For some guys it is intimidating and awkward if a girl is straight forward. Shy and hard to get can be too cryptic though.





Maybe I'm just a dumbass.