Why girls want guys to chase them?

Why they want them to chase them? attention? reason?


Why they play hard to get with guys? How long will stop?


10 points if you give me a best answer, thanks!Why girls want guys to chase them?
At the heart of every woman is the desire to be pursued. They long to be captivating and uncommonly beautiful. When no one calls or chases them it sends a message to their inner most being which says, ';You're not worth the time or effort. You're not captivating and you're not worth capturing.';





But when someone seeks them it makes them feel like being on top of cloud nine. Sometimes they even dream of more than one pursuer.





Boys and young men are always asking themselves, ';Do I have what it takes?'; While girls and young ladies are always asking, ';Am I beautiful?';Why girls want guys to chase them?
Girls play hard to get with guys to see how much they are wanted. If a guy approaches you and you say no and they keep on chasing you then obviously it is something very special about you that they want. Most of the time guys will use girls to get in their pants so they try to test them to see if they are worthy enough. That's how me and my boyfriend got together. I played hard to get for a long time though. I played hard to get for a year and now we have been together for 8 months and planning on getting married when i get out of school so all you have to do is play along and if she gets real mad then you know that she is not really playing hard to get...she is serious.
Girls love to be chased by guys because they want to feel that somebody WANTS them. That's why they like to ';play hard to get';. Everybody always wants attention, maybe a lot or not so much. But girls will most likely try to be mysterious toward guys to keep them hanging on or chase them. Smart girls won't keep a guy chasing her for awhile because she knows that the guy will stop. Girls will stop being mysterious when she knows if the guy likes her a lot. Hope this helps. :)
because guys are supposed to be men- they're suppose to be the alpha male and be the ones to get what they want. girls want guys who are not afraid to go after what they want. playing hard to get is a way to have fun and to see how much you like them to continue to chase them. it will stop once you've proven to her that you like her.
i do this all the time :')


and for one reason to annoy them you boys as soon as you like someone you want them but if the girl doesnt seem to want you it makes you like her even more, which makes girls actully want you back


like if you said hey to me id b like what ? and walk away and then if you turn and walk away yer not much of a man but if you come back stand in front of me and say i like you and im gonna keep talking to you with that stick your tounge out and walk away it turns it completey around and were the ones pinning for you :L
I've only played hard to get once- and it was because i didn't know the guy very well and he seemed like a player so i pretended like i didn't like him very much to see if he would keep trying to get with me and see if he truly liked me or if i was just another girl for him to play.








now, y do guys do that to girls?
the reason for chasing is because it makes us feel like they are really into us and not just into getting in our pants. the more attention they show us, the more flattered we are and the more convinced we become that they really like us and not what they can get from us.





the reason for playing hard to get is so the guy doesn't think she's desperate or a slut.





how long we play the game depends on the individual. some girls are harder to convince than others that you really like them.
they want to know that the guys are making the effort to be with them... if they are working hard to be with them they most likely arent putting the effort in elsewhere with other chicks... not to mention, the effort guys put into the chase shows how dependable they can be in the future and if they really want her bad enough or not.
the heart of a woman was made to be pursued. this may drive guys crazy, but honestly, guys need to get in touch with their hearts anyways, so look at it as a dose of much needed medicine that can eventually get you where you need to be. needing to be pursued and valued and made to feel worthy is different than playing games, and some women dont know how to ask a man to do this without being manipulative and playing games, so find a quality girl who is worth the chase and then enjoy the ride,she'll make it worth your while :-)
Brother-





Because:-





They last long ;-) so they can afford to run more than we can.





Good at football now play this new ball game if you can %26amp; let the coach decide if you are the best player. Play hard ! to Win big!





You have dreams %26amp; you chase them, ain't that girl in your dreams so why this discrimination towards her- chase her man.








Besides, we men articulate girls more than they deserve to be %26amp; in the process they become delicate to handle %26amp; then you become wary of breaking them %26amp; finally you give up handling them fearing you are going to break them. However, if can't handle your possessions well what else you could be good at? Ask yourself !








My 10 points mate !!!!!???? now don't back off lol!
the reason we like to be chased is to make sure there is no game plaaying also to know that we are worth the wait you know because a good guy will chase the girl and someone who just wants to hit it is not going to do all the chasing when they only want one thing so basically its to feel worth something and knowing that you will take the time to chase after us just to talk to us.
If a girl acts like that, don't even try. She isn't worth it.


There are much more balanced, reasonable women out there who won't waste your time as these girls do. These fools will never stop playing silly mind and power games with you - so just don't get involved.
It's a sick power game tied to their need for status and dominance/acceptance by their catty little girlfriends. Raising a daughter has been appalling in that these sorts of traits are hardwired into our females and manifest so young.
Alot of times girls want to be chased to make them feel like they are wanted. It does something for some girls egos to have a guy constantly contact them however a confident girl don't necessarily need this.
Attention ! ! !
I would only do that because I'm nervous the guy doesn't like me or I want to make sure the guy likes me and he's ';manly'; to ask me out or whatever himself...
it will never stop man bc thats the why that they now they got the power when there able to do watever they want to u so drop it and show them that its watever
to know we are worth it to you