This guy is playing hard to get?

how do I get him!


what should I do? should I just give in and say I really want to hang out with him? or should I act like a don't care?


if you play hard to get what is it you want the other person to do?


sometimes we are flirty and hanging out and other times he's kinda mean to me but in a fun way.This guy is playing hard to get?
ok you are11 an he is 12 what the f**kThis guy is playing hard to get?
Guys ain't that emotionally savvy. He's not playing hard-to-get, he's just playing. If you like him, go with the flow. He's dancing, follow his lead.
Are you both grown and out of school --working full time and all?? If so don't sweat it --if not don't bother--finish school have fun and then see where you are--it doesn't sound like he is playing hard to get--just maybe dating one on one isn't what he is into--and that is fine--if you each enjoy hanging out that is fine--don't force the issue--if its right and I believe that people come together if its meant not because its fought for--
just be yourself .. if he is really into you, you don't even have to do a thing .. he will move heaven and earth just to be with you!
i just can say ';good luck with that';
He probably wants some fun but is reluctant of possible strings attached (commitment that you may want). So if there are no strings then go on and tell him. Have a good time and just let it develop if it ever does. Who knows. Remember, who dares wins!
I think the best way to get the guy is to come out and tell him how you feel. Believe it or not, guys can be quite dumb (myself included) and we do not realize what exactly is going on or pick up on hints at all, even if it seems that we are. Most guys dont play hard to get, thats more of a girl thing, we usually like things laid right out on the table. If you like him, just tell him. It sounds like he likes you too, being ';mean'; especially in a fun-like way is almost always a sign of flirting. Take the chance and go for it. You most likely wont be disappointed.





Good luck friend





~James S.
read the book Why men lov bitches...and yes!be hard to get!!wutever u do dont admit u like him!be harder to get than he is.hell luv that challenge
It sounds like he cannot make up his own mind, so you can either approach him directly and make it for him or you can move on and find someone who is more sure of what he wants.
act like u dont give a **** about him, talk to other guy in front of him
Guys dont play hard to get. Either he's shy, you're throwing him mixed signals and it's confusing him, or he isn't really interested. Tell him you want to go out!
try playing hard to get as well. its really fun when you get into it.





tease him back. a lot of guys like that go nuts for it. itmight be what he is after.





if this doesnt work try the direct approach.
Treat him like he treats you. Act a little flirty but then blow him off. See if comes after you
y dont you go up to him and give him a real sexy come and get me smile and see if he wlks over then youll now u have him in da bag and also if it works ask him out!!
Alright, well as a 20 year old guy I can tell you what I would want. Personally, I love the hunt. I like a girl to make me work for it a little bit, but if you pull away too far he might get sick of it and move on, I know I have my breaking points. My suggestion would be to drop hints; don't make it easy or TOO hard; and make physical contact every once in a while to show what you think. I don't mean grope him or anything, just a quick hug, hand on an arm, something small. People forget how important body language is and says a lot more than words could in the early stages of a relationship.





Assuming he is anything like me he will follow you like a lost puppy if he has any interest in you and ask you out soon enough.
hes just being playful, just play along, have fun
mm i would give it a little more time then if it's going nowhere tell him how you feel if he reciproacates then good if not move on =]
Guys are always mean in a fun way when they have a crush


go with the flow
play hard , guys don't like a girl to up front but smile and touch there arm. talk sweet to them, and be flirty,
Men are obsessed with the chase.


Mean playfully flirt and then ignore him for a couple days, see what he does. But just make sure you don't play TOO hard to get..