How would you play hard to get?

Apparently I don't know how to play it.


I was playing hard to get with the


guy I reallly like, and guess what?


He got a new girlfriend.


Who is easy.








Any tips?How would you play hard to get?
don't do it.





you obviously played the game to long and he got tired of it and moved on. I think playing hard to get is okay if he playing along and it only happens for a short period of time.





If the fisherman never gets the fish after a long day of work he'd just eventually go home and give up.How would you play hard to get?
I'm older (39) but I'll offer a bit o' advice:





I think playing hard to get is fine to a point, but you can't let opportunity pass you by. Were you returning his calls, acting ambivalent? Or just being a little cool?





If you and him were at a party - a little coming and going (as opposed to giving him your undivided attention the whole night) is a good thing, but don't hide how you feel. Have fun, flirt. Get on his radar before somebody else does.





My advice and what I try to live by: if I feel there's a connection, I try to communicate it - no reason to beat around the bush. Sure, I usually wait a couple days to call a girl I got a number from, I'm not a big gift-buyer until we've dated a bit, I don't call a ton - but I try to communicate clearly and be there for the person. That is more important to me than playing hard to get.





Maybe this guy was oblivious to your advances, maybe you weren't clear about your feelings for him. Maybe he's had feelings for his new girlfriend for a while. Could just be a case of bad timing. She was somewhere at the right time with him when you weren't.





Oh well, his loss...
well its obvious he was only looking for some tail so your better off.





playing hard to get a fun game, but can always backfire on you with someone who is less patient as you are.





big time flirting is usually the first time, but always lead him wanting more and more and when he comes to you saying would you like to go out tonight... just throw the occasional nah.... im going out with some friends tonight. even if you are not make it look like your very interested but he is going to have to earn his time spent with you.
Playing hard-to-get is a combination of:





1) Answering every question with a question, and





2) Ramping up one's appeal, i.e., regular display of beaucoups


cleavage





Said another way- - - you want to keep them coming back; ya just aren't giving them any more than eye candy when they come back.






when you answer him, give short answers that might lead somewhere but don't.


occasionally look at him, but when he sees you watching look away like you don't care.


be arrogant in a flirtacious way.


if that makes sense.
Well that guy was apparently looking for an easy girl!! When you play hard to get, it makes the guy who's after you mad about you more.


So it really depends on the guy. You're on the right track.
Smile and flirt, but once you get kind of in deep flirt mode...say you have to go. Smile and stuff. Have him want you but dont let him have you. YET.
Stop playing hard to get.





Guys will only put up with games for so long before they get impatient and irritated.





Next time, try being honest and show genuine interest in the guy so he won't feel insecure and move on.
Don't do it.


I did it and it bit me in the butt.


And he did it to me and I decided he was an jerk.


It just doesn't work.
Just try to be hard to get, pretend you don't like that guy.





Or make him jealous then don't accept him for a while then sooner or later date him.
ugh. that sukss.


you just need to ignore him; and dont TALK TO HIM. guys just get more ATTRACTED to you when you ignore them ;D..[[trust me;ive been through it; it workss!!]]





hope i helped
Don't.





From a guy's point of view, it's annoying and puts us off. It seems like the girl just wants attention or is playing with us.
who plays hard to get? it's so stupid. if ya like him ya like him. don't play games. its a waste of time.
What for? That's kinda not interested, right? Not the same as him picking an easy girl. He thought you didn't want him or like him.






Don't play hard to get. A little aggressiveness never hurt anyone.
How to play hard to get:





go live on a mountain as a hermit
Don't. Guys don't like that.
you should play ';easy to bang';





it's MUCH more fruitful
It doesn't pay to play hard to get. Why would you do that? Just be yourself.
obviously dont do it.





thats the last thing a guy wants.