Friday, August 20, 2010

How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give

This guy I work with in the grocery store is Hott and I catch my self checking him out all the time, We always make eye contact from a distance and when he walks buy me he just looks at me and walks by but continues to look at me and doesnt say anything. When I go through the check out line to get something (just because he's the one running the check out line) We have small talk for like 10 seconds and thats it. When I see him in the store he gives off body language like he is gay, and he's not married but he may be engaged. What do I do to get his attention?How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give
Sorry, possibly gay guys don't give off different signals from other guys or I would have skipped my first husband. When you do your small talk thing, just slip in an innocent sounding question like ';how old do you think you'll be when you get married';. If he says he's engaged now, you'll know. If he says ';never';, ask why and he might tell you if he's gay.How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give
Huh????
Getting anyone's attention is pretty much the same no matter who it happens to be. You either need an ';in,'; or you need to be bold enough to create your own.





You are fortunate in that you two already work together - that's your in. If you're both old enough, try inviting him out for a beer after work, but be passive about it. (If he's going straight home after work, would he be up for stopping off for a beer - NOT like you're asking him out on a date for an evening.) If you're not old enough to do that, try getting your break at the same time he does and use the time to strike up a conversation. Find some common ground - sports you both like, other interests, whatever. Look for an opportunity to meet up outside of work, to watch a game for example.





Use caution while you feel this guy out and determine what he's really all about. Not to discourage you, but we're all human and can tend to see or hear what we want, instead of what's really in front of us. You may interpreting his behavior the way you'd like to think of it, and the last thing you want to do is have him running around the store telling everyone you hit on him when he's got a fiance or something.





Good luck.
I guess you could always flash him the secret gay hand signal, and see how he reacts! Heh, heh, just kidding!





If you are out, then maybe you should try wearing a 'Gay and Proud'; T shirt, or a rainbow pin to the store while off duty. Then when you stop to talk to him, see what he says. If he is gay and is interested, then he will make the next move.
ask him

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