Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to play hard to get with a shy guy?

I like this guy, who's really shy and i'm very outgoing and will talk with anyone. he told my friend a few weeks ago that he liked but but it seems to me hes starting to lose interest.. how can i stop this?? please help





p.s. an info on shy guys will help!! :)How to play hard to get with a shy guy?
You DONT. Have you thought about this? At all? If he's shy he won't go for the chase.How to play hard to get with a shy guy?
Okay, I'm a really shy guy when it comes to girls. With that said, It is never a good idea to play hard-to-get with a shy guy, particularly one you like. Oftentimes even when I like a girl, it's hard for me to show interest in her because I'm afraid of being judged by other people for it (hence the shyness). So it may appear as though I'm losing interest, or just didn't have any interest to begin with, but I may actually be very interested. I just don't show it easily or very much. Your guy is likely similar. Guys' interest in girls tends to be pretty black-and-white. We either like a girl, or we don't. There's not much in-between. So the fact that he told your friend he likes you means he certainly does.





You said you can talk to anyone. I know it's kind of unconventional, but you need to be the one to talk to him first. Otherwise it could be awhile before anything happens. Even shy guys open up over time when someone talks to them first. However, don't be surprised if he's slow to open up. Shy guys often are slow to open up to girls they like for fear that the girl won't like them for who they are (hence why so many guys to tell their crushes lies to increase their chances), even if they're convinced that the girl likes them. Keep working at him, and eventually you two will be dating.
If you have a bubbly personality with everyone including him, then yeah he may begin to lose interest. How about you show him another side to yourself that no one has seen. Show him something that you are passionate about, or your low key side. Try to have one on one time, and dont be too outgoing. Try to bring him out of his shell and see what he is about. Shy people are shy because they are a little insecure. So go up to him and ask nice and calmy if he would like to do something. If you play hard to get then he will think you lost interest as well
dont play hard to get with a shy guy- the only way toi get him to open up is to let him know that you like him- he's shy because he doesnt want to feel vulnerable, and so you playing it cool might be mistinterpreted by him..


if he likes you and you like him, you're there.. ask him to a movie or something not to confronting.. get to know each other, take it slow and it will be beautiful
Don't play hard to get with a shy guy! D: Just let him know you like him!
i am shy


and well don't

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