How common is it for a girl to play hard to get?

I'm just wondering if it is more common for a girl to play hard to get with a guy she likes rather than be upfront with him.





What are some key signs to tell that a girl is just playing hard to get and waiting-or hard to never get?





Thanks in advance for all replies, I'd really appreciate any insight. My situation is a bit odd right now and if I get the right answer to this question I think I'll be fine. =]How common is it for a girl to play hard to get?
Most girls play hard to get, they don't want you to think they are too easy, but if you pay attention, you can usually tell if they are being serious with you or if they are playing and want you to continue to pursue them. Many of them want to see just how serious you are about them, and make sure you actually want to be with them, and not just for sex. A man that is just in it for sex will usually give up after a while, while a man that is truly interested won't...Pay attention to her actions and tone of voice, you will be able to tell...Good Luck!How common is it for a girl to play hard to get?
its not really playing ';hard to get';, as much as it is, ';keeping a distance,'; so that you don't get hurt.





Think about it .. what would you prefer a girl who is there and around all the time .. or someone who challenges you ...


this isn't always the case though, if you think the girl you like is playing ';hard to get'; then my advice to you is to take a few steps back ... because she might just not be into you .. and if she is into you and she notices that you are becoming less interested .. then she will start paying more attention to you ..


you'll know when it happens .. just ALWAYS give lots of space ..
very common for a girl to play hard to get....


i'm proof. i played hard to get for a long time and now im exactly where i want to be. happy and in love. we don't like to admit it but we love the attention we get from you while your tryin to hard.


treat her like a princess! but don't be too pushy, she might get annoyed.
girls always play hard to get take it from me as a girl if i really like a guy i play seriously hard to get because it will show how much he will try for me and how much he likes me but if you find someone in a bar or pub and you come up to her and she says yes instantly that means shes going after something other than love!!!
Actually, it all depends on the girl and her type of personality. Playing hard to get is not cool. You waste too much valuable time and it does not prove anything.
girls usually palys hard to get! to getthe attention of the man they like, here you go then!...';the man they like'; this is what you need to know...
Most of them play hard to get. The ones worth getting anyway. The ones that don't you don't want.
Well someone obvoiusly got REGECTED!!!
Some do that.
its very common for girls to play hard to get... with guys they dont like. haha;[
well i dont like playing games..watch her, just OBSERVE
Wow how many question have i answerd that are like this the signs of hard to play is simple


1. look them in the eyes and say do u like me


if she turns around or evens smiles a little bit its a maybe


2.if u start talkin to u and some one interups and u catch her off gaurd and steal a kiss and see wat she does if she tries to hit u try it again and tell her it was worth it and dont run or walk away


3. if she jst starring at u that is a good sign it will be a week and u will be wid her so dont act lame around her


advice if she is very seriouse act slow around her so she will feel the need to help u and thats a good time to tell her wat ur true feelings r. and also a good time to have a private time wid her like talk about how she likes boys some characteristics and go from der try to pay as much attention as u can then ask her wat can i do to convince u that i really like u and i would like to be wid u. and well yeah thats all follow this and u will be wid her. but dont be so anoying either jst do it once and wait then try again because if u go in agressive she will not like that u have to take it slow


hope this helps
It depends on the girl...After a first date out with a girl, you do not receive any text or contact from her. No text, no phone call, etc. This will make you very confused as the both of you have hell lots of fun that night. In this scenario, the girl is most probably playing hard to get with you. Girl will usually NOT make the first move of contacting the guy after a date. So if you really want to bring a step further between you and her, do take the initiative to call her. If after many dates and you are still getting no calls whatsoever from her, you should move on.


The second scenario will be inside a pub, and let say that you have spotted a very attractive girl. Both of you exchange some eye contact, but after a while when you look over to her direction, she looks away and does not give you any attention at all. If you find that she still does give you a few glances when you are not looking at her, you should pick up your courage and approach her.





These are just a few common scenarios that a girl is most probably playing hard to get with you. Do remember, when you know that she is playing hard to get, you still need to retain your pride. Do not think that because she is playing hard to get with you, you must do things that will bring your pride down. You can turn the table around, if you know how and why they play it.