Is this girl just playing with my mind?

me and this girl dated for a year off and on. and when we would break up she would go do things with guys she said she wouldn't. but at the same time she still said she loved me she just scared of commitment. and i know i messed up big time when i cheated a month into our relationship(and i didnt really want to cheat this girl said she wanted to talk so we did she gave me a hug cause we were good friends and then she kissed me i pushed away) then things were good for a while when we got back together, till she keep hanging out with some guy she use to have feeling for and i would get mad so we broke up again and a week later we got back together.(they ended up making out over that week) then they stop talking to him and things were good between us but she wasnt as happy cause she said she did have a good friend to talk to and she said i cant talk to you about you. so we dated for like 3 months where things were good. but then she says that shes scared i could be the one. so she said we need a break so we took a break. during this break i couldnt sleep and i didnt like to eat and friends told me i looked sick all the time. but we still talked and did things during this break so idk why it bugged me. we end up getting back together. i find out that during that time she made-out with some dude and ended up given so other dude a hicky. she said she was sorry. we break up again a for a long time but we still hung and did things and still said we loved each other but she did things with other guys as well(keep in mind during this time i was going though some bad things with family. so i would get mad at the things she did with these guys and would blow up and get mad but i never hit her or anything like that but i really only got mad over other guys.) so one night i run away from home and she hides me in her house i get sent away the next day and then she starts saying she knows what she wants now and that she wants to be with we and that she loves me. then about to weeks later she says its 2 hard on her and that she cant handle me being 2 hours away.(but we made promises to each other that we wouldnt date other people and things why i was gone for the rest of the school year and we wouldnt go to prom if we were asked. i knew my good friend at the time liked her so i told to promises that nothing would happen she did) but cause it was to hard and she wonted to get her mind off me thats what she says shes now dating him. but still calls me behind his back sometimes. and has said she loves me and cares about me. i love this girl i would pry take a bullet for her. i almost went to jail for her when her mom threaten to call the cops on me if i would come see her cause she called me crying cause her mom and her were fighting. i dont know what to do i love her but i dont know how she really feels cause she wants me to come back even though shes with that other dude. i dont know what to do at all? am i just getting my mind messed with. if you say i should ended things how do you just forget about someone you care about.Is this girl just playing with my mind?
It sounds like you're going through a hell of a hard time right now, in all respects, %26amp; you've prooven your devotion to her more than once, so I tend to think she's a commitmentphobe, ie I think she wants to be with you but @ the same time she's scared that if she settles for you right off then she may be missing someone else, so she's being very silly %26amp; trying to see what's out there %26amp; just presuming that the next time she's decided she's had enough experimenting %26amp; wants you back that you'll just come running (literally) when she snaps her fingers.





Don't really understand the part about her Mother threatening you with the police, but that may be something you have to take into serious consideration, a criminal record for harassment, or abuse (in any form) won't do your future any good @ all. So, be VERY careful about that!!





Right now all you can do is back right off, get on with enjoying your life to the up-most, %26amp; if that includes you seeing other girls then I'd suggest you do that too, don't lock yourself away %26amp; mope about this other girl, cos tbh hunni, I really don't think she deserves your adoration, but that's up to you, %26amp; what you choose to do the next time she snaps is also down to you, but I'd give her a VERY wide berth %26amp; find a beautiful girl who may be right under your nose for all you realize.





Best of luck %26amp; I truly hope it all works out ok for youIs this girl just playing with my mind?
Sorry that you have been going through so much turmoil. Even though you might Love each other, it is not always enough to make a relaionship work.





Personally, I think there has been too many problems for this to work. There are trust issues, problems with her family, and just a lot of damage in the past.





It is difficult to move on, but I think you need a clean break. Try and concentrate on getting your life together, focus on school and a career. I would stay busy and plan on trying to look towards a happy, healthier future.





Sorry, but the two of you do not seem to be right for each other, and relationships should have more good days than bad. All the best to you.
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Very detailed scenario with a very messy setting. You are a very dependable guy for her to keep on going back to despite her confused and very unstable state, she is a person whom a lot would talk bad behind her back because of her hedonistic approach towards life, what ever makes her feel good at the moment she is likely going to do without really much minding the consequences and how others would feel about until she starts feeling the brunt of the criticism and would then be in a deep emotional ditch.





Not everything in life is ideal, and sometimes, we are trapped in a situation where we think the only good things in life is the ones that we have at the moment and we just have to find a way to resolve all the differences and perhaps someday, everything will turn out okay and great. But reality would beg to differ in this point and it all boils down to choices. You are a temperamental person in that you also react when you felt you got hurt, cheated, betrayed. But you seem to constantly be the knight that saves her in times of trouble and cheers her in times of trials and persecution. Who are we to judge on what is the best course of action that you should take when your decision will charter the course of your life and your love...





My advice friend, is that you should consider all the angles, all the scenario, all the pros and cons in your current relation with the woman whom you prefer over all others. What was is it that made you love her and what was it that made her love you in return... there might still be hope in making her your ideal dream girl as we all are capable of changing. I pray that when you do decide, you should commit yourself and never falter, for it is in the face of certain adversity that we are forced to grow and mature into truly wise and responsible individuals.





My best wishes and Good Luck!
honestly friend, i would try to move on till you know that she is for sure ready to be in a relationship with you. You both need to be committed to one another.
Wow! What a girl and what a line she's using on all of you! We used to call them sluts. Now they're Mind Playing Love Chicks - So much more dramatic - Don't forget about her. She's a great lesson on how to cope with life's little vicissitudes, use weaknesses in befuddled lovers' character, keep them coming back for more and as Sumi elegantly puts it: enjoy an hedonisic life style.
She is wanting you to be there in case it doesn't work out with all these other guys. You are her back-up plan. She knows she can always count on you to be her sucker and be there when she feels like she is good and ready. The only reason she keeps telling you that she loves and all that stuff, is to keep trailing you along. Keep your feelings for her fresh. Leave her. If you're still in middle school/ high school...(which I think you are)...she will leave your mind as soon as you stop going along with her game. You will find someone else. It's ';hard'; at first, but she will eventually become the girl from your story...';There was once this girl...'; No emotions attached.

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